If you are SM. Everyone should leave u to hell alone. I have read comments in many different media forms about Samantha Mathis and things she has said about her opinion on River dying. I dont think anyone is to blame River Phoneix's death but him. We can be pressured as humans, cajoled, badgered, harrassed and on, and on, by others, but in the end what we do, say, and injest is all on us. It is sad he died, it is also sadder for the people left because he left the pain here he didnt take it with him. Jonny Depp was harassed for years as if his nightclub killed River, SM has been harassed for years because she just happened to be his girlfreind at the time. I wonder if someone as gifted in acting as Samantha has been ignored for many roles due to the fact that she happened to be with River when he died.