Request that you ask about it and show some curiosity for their existance, if you don't ask they figure you really don't care. The ones who ask are more inclined to be out going and more secure in their own self, I would think. To be rebuked in a manner that is rude or threatening speaks for its self.
"""Curiosity killed the cat is a proverb used to warn against being too inquisitive lest one comes to harm. A less frequent rejoinder to 'curiosity killed the cat' is 'satisfaction brought it back'."""
Regards,
Gary |