Hi Rose! I just wanted to say welcome. I haven't been through any of those issues (yet!) since Johnny has just turned three but if you figure anything out, I'm all ears since those are stages we will be in soon.
Yes, pop on over to the "General Forum" link that is listed on the left and introduce yourself and maybe ask over there. This one only seems to get posts in small waves. Hope to see you around more.
Johnny's Journal:
http://www.caringbridge.org/oh/johncamden/index.htm
