I have been dating this women for 4 months and now we are not together but i love her she told me she love me but not in love what should i do. i want her back

I had a five year relationship with someone that told me that she loved me, but was not IN LOVE with me.

I thought she would eventually say she was in love with me. I thought she was just being the tough butch that she was.

It was always a "bone of contention".

She never said it until it was over.