Well i just feel abit fed up right now-iv tried so hard to be patient.
Iv been on my NBE program since september-i myself have given others advice about being patient, but im struggling right now-i did see growth at the begining but nothing else to report than before-I know its silly but i do get jelous of others reporting growth etc,when i feel i have stalled.
I am thinking of changing my program-but im skint, i keep reasearching and wanting to add more things-but this could also hinder growth from other threads iv read.could u use more than 1 nbe pill comany?-please could some one give some advice over my program
I know we are all in the same boat here,i just feel its the last sallon so to speak and as much as i try,as positive as i am, as much as i want this, as much as i belive-Im really quite afraid of it not working or not growing any more and the feelings i will get of failure-what next?-iv been booked in for a boob job,its taken alot to get over the way iv been treated (thats another story n i didnt go through with it)-but thats why im here and much as it pains me to say it im loosing hope.Any advice would really be apreciated right now-n im sorry to be negetive
I know how you feel. I started in September too. I haven't really grown much at all. Perhaps the tiniest bit. I don't know, I just figure it's going to catch up eventually because I have random growing pains and tingles. Though those seem to be getting fewer and far between.
I very badly want to try the cayenne, ginko biloba mixture for circulation, and try shea butter. I am hoping that by adding these to my program I will increase chances. Oh also I am DYING to buy a heat pad. Do you have one?
Don't give up hope, 3 months isn't all that bad. We'll get there eventually. Instead of changing your program, how about just adding something else?
Hi Alecet-Yeh i have a heat bag-but my step daughter keeps pinching it (its the shape of a giraffe)
Iv added the shea butter -i think its great. I want to add collagen by mouth and massage,a product called col-ez/ and im also interested in cayenne or change everything and go on BO just not sure what to do next
im sorry to here your in the same boat, what do you feel could be working?-I seem to think at present the massage is doing more than the pills-r u on indervidual herbs or WU?
i also have been having a hard time and i have only been at it for 5 weeks. but i was looking at fawn's site for generic bo and after seeing emmie's results i wish i had the money. but i added omega 369, ginkgo biloba, and vitex. the only thing that has happened since adding these is my stomache is so upset i dont know which end to stick in the toilet(sorry!). i got so disillusioned from growing 3/4 of an inch the first 2 weeks, which i have kept, i thought i could just add stuff to kickstart it
In my opinion 3 months isn't much to see considerable growth. =P I know it took some time for some girls to see a considerable change (I'm thinking about Eve and Amber too, if i'm not mistaken... you also have Lisa's example too.) I started my routine on midst June, and only started to see some definite growth last month. I agree with what has been said about adding more stuff to your routine. There's plenty you can do before quitting, for example:
-try changing a bit more some habits regarding smoking, drinking coffee and carb. drinks
-massage more/change massage techniques
-cut w/ aluminium deos.
-try to make a diet high in vegetables and protein (include some fat in it too), avoid carbs in excess, and definitely cut with the refined ones (sugary stuff). Maybe you could give a look to Tiger Lily's boobie friendly foods.
- add protein shakes and gelatine too (if you haven't already)
From what I've been reading: poor blood circulation, body low temperature, low thyroid function and hormonal imbalances can compromise NBE success. You may want to check if you have these symptoms and introduce some changes in your routine accordingly.
After reading your program page I also noticed you weren't very consistent with your wu dosages...maybe you could try taking the recommended dosage and stick with it for a while? You could try individual herbs (less expensive) before switching to BO, too.
Above all I don't think it's good to have high expectations towards NBE. It may happen with some girls to start seeing results very fast (as far as I know those are the exceptions, not the rule) , but it doesn't work in the same way for all, and some girls just take longer to respond to the herbs.
I totally agree, i have been on nbe since july and almost nothing has happened, but in the beginning i used a lot of time trying to find out what herbs to use and changed a lot, i have been on my latest program for about two months, and i am gonna stick to these herbs for a while (fennel, hops and nettle). My biggest problem are stress, i am a full time student, have a 4 year old soon and my boyfriend moved out for little over a weeks ago. So everything is a mess. So far the only thing that has worked is the brava. Havent lost any of my growt and i stopped using it 10months ago. I just wish these herbs will work, desperately want to be a c cup again. Cant we make a pact girls? we will not give up and support each other the best we can?
Ladies, don't lose hope!!! I am in the same boat, I lost almost all my growth last month, but I am trying again now. I think this just takes time and dedication...We know it works, it can just be very slow and unpredictable.
dont you lose hope!! you who yelled at everyone about massage! i was just thinking last night as i started massaging and was annoyed because i HAD to MASSAGE AGAIN that you would just freak out if i stopped! haha... its pretty funny, because you havent a clue nor a care if i massage, i just remember all your posts not too long ago about all the massaging and the cocoa butter and for everyone to keep at it!
you inspired me, so now you best buck up and keep doing what you are doing.
try something for circulation... ginko or l-tyrosine/kelp combo. that might help you get the blood moving again. protein, and YOUR MASSAGES... and keep up with your herbs, of course! dont skip doses!
I am amoung the frustrated too. It seems I am very sensitive to these plant hormones. It makes my periods heavy and close together. I also bloat a lot and currently have gained 4 lbs in 1 month. I have tried this before and every time I lose the weight I loose my growth. I am giving it 1 more month. Bets of luck to everyone.
same here. i started my program in the end of august and no growth so far. was very down about it but don't wanna give up just yet.
i had a few days off fenugreek (just didnt know what to do) and now since i added them back i have more clear stabbing than before. So i think the breaks are necessary. I have also kelp and gingko in my routine just to make sure i give my best.
i agree that it's a bit depressing to read how everyone is growing so fast and feel like u are the only exception. and i so envy the ones that have such a wonderful startingpoint that i could never even dream about.
but i will stick to it one more month and then will think of smth else.
Hmm, well I dunno what to tell you. I started about a year ago and am still positive about trying. What I tell to everoyne these days - massage with knuckles and blood circulation ;P (lol)
Maybe you are a bit depressed in general aspects of life and thus lacking motivation? Try to work on positivity towards everything, to focus on other aspects, find some other things that would make you happy besides boobs. Life is beautiful, cheer up! ;)
I know how you feel! I had no results during my first four months, and the last weeks I have grown a little bit (from an A cup to almost a B cup, they still look much to small for my body!) but although they remain very sensitive, I don't know if they are still growing at the moment.
I'm so fed up with being ashamed about my breasts! This summer, I would like to swim with my friends instead of sitting in the garden with my cloths on while all the others are having fun in bikini... I have given my hopes up to get the spectacular results of Michelle choi, Tiger Lily, Eve, Erika or Emmie, but if I they could be just a little bit bigger that would make such a diference!
hi ginger, i dunno what to say except what others already said, keep at it, try to be consistent and be patient. i've been trying since spetember as well and had some growth, but my boobs are still tiny (not even a cup but getting there), i feel depressed sometimes as well when i read that people have grown inches in a very short time.
i also started visualisation snd every night when i'm falling asleep i'm telling myself that my boobs are growing, i dunno if it helps but it makes me feel better
i'm sure there is someting that will work for you, just give it time
Bend over and get a big whack on the behind for this tantrum !!!!!! IF YOU DARE STOP OR GIVE UP !!!! you are going to have to deal with a visit from ol aunt jelly !!! and I have a lot of baggage (belive me ) !!!! lets get back to basicis first i think you should do a liver cleanse (yes that means no coffee, smokes or sugar ) told you ,you wouldnt want to see me ! then if you have plenty of wonderup left start the whole thing again exactly as written !!!! and dont change, add anything for at least 2 months then if no change add saw palmetto. take protien shakes twice a day 25gms per serve should be ok and eat healthy !!!!! take a desert spoon of mega oil every day if you can get it. massage your boobs morning and night with shea butter and a few drops of fenugreek extract and dont change anything !!!!!! IT TAKES TIME !!!!!!!! ok sometimes its so hard to resist temtation when you read girls trying this or that on the forum but you must resist and do exactly as wonderup tell you to do and consult them and keep reading our posts so long as you can go the haul of at least 2 months doing i thing properly !!!! we love you ginger and want you to suceed !!!!!! but its a slow ride !!!!! (now do I have to come over or what !!!!! ) love ol aunt jelly......
Well, I haven't really "started" yet myself (I'm only massaging with cocoa butter and listening to hypnosis CDs--I'm doing my reasearch before I go out and spend my cash on supplies) and I'm already nervous. It seems like some girls here go up almost a whole size in a month and some are at this for months and see almost nothing. While I hope to be one of the lucky ones, but I have that doubt.
One thing I have noticed however, is that those who seem to have the most success have the strictest programs (massaging multiple times a day, strict doses of herbs, eat specific foods, etc.,etc.). Maybe you should make your program stricter??
It seems like success takes either a lot of luck or a lot of devotion.
I'm sorry that you're feeling down and discouraged. Trust me, I know we've all been there, it's a struggle when you don't see any results or for awhile don't see any. Just got out of that slump myself. One thing I believe that helped me think more positive, is watching a film called 'the secret' about the law of attraction. We attract what we want or think we'll get...whether it be negative or positive. After watching that, I feel more positive and dream bigger about everything, not just bigger boobs. :) So it may help you also...the site I watched it from no longer has it available..but if you go to www.youtube.com and do a search for 'the secret' it usually is the first to come up. They don't have the whole film on there, but about 7 minutes of it I think, it still gives you a general idea of the concept and can maybe help with feeling more positive. May be good for all of us to watch. :) Also, I believe the mind is very powerful, so have you thought about also trying some breast hypnosis? Although I don't do it religiously like I should, the times that I do listen to it before bed, I wake up feeling more positive about growth cause I know I listened to it the night before and think that maybe it has an impact on my growth. I believe the hypnosis can help us 'unblock' whatever is causing us not to grow, whether it be our mind or body. The best to me is the blaketalks hypnosis, because it really gets to the core of what stopped us from not growing during puberty and helps face that and toss it away in our minds cause the reason now is no longer 'valid', cause we can grow. Since thinking more positive recently, I've been getting more stronger pains in my breasts, now of course it could just be cause I'm doing things differently and doing new stuff (venus cream), but I'm sure the positive thinking is also helping now.
Please don't give up and I hope you feel better soon...you have our support and encouragement! :)
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re:getting fed up loosinghope
December 7 2006, 3:55 AM
I just wanted to tell you that you should try the hypnosis thing, I have been doing it for only 7 days, from blaketalks.com. there is thread all about it here on this forum. I have only been doing that and I already feel like this is gonna ork. find that thread, i think ita on the second or third page. good luck! :)
Well guys, wasnt i feeling sorry for myself yesturday,Your all right positive thaughts-i mean i have had growth and its still here-sorry for being so negetive-im feeling 100% better than yesturday, what a mood i was in-thank you all for the encouragementkind words and suport!!!
Also i woke this morning with throbing sore boobies-maybe they are mad with me for not believeing in them
MOON-I think your right you know, i was having one lousy day yesturday,I think i have been alittle depresed of late-i don't know why tho, to be honerst i shouldnt complain my lifes pretty great at present
TMS-Nice to hear from you !! n happy growing
EMMIE-Your dam right,i have lapst with the massage,and i do need to buck my ideas up,
Auntie Jelly-THANK YOU,I most definatly needed that, i some times throw my rattle out of the cot so to speak-i can be quite moody and childish for my age"BUT I WANT IT NOW!"-a good talking to is what i needed-probably more frequently than i eva get.So you would drop the stinky fennel and opt for fenugreek?il drop the cofee n sugar-iv really cut back on the fags 10 last me 2 days now
Chelle-I have to say i think every one should watch this clip-Im not inlinement with what i want-at the begining i was constantly excited,dreaming of the goal etc-and i did have growth,so i have to get that feeling back-and its nearly there thank you so much for the reply :)
THANKS EVERYONE-U WILL NOT GET THIS OUT BURST FROM ME AGAIN-POSITIVE THAUGHTS ONLY BIG BOOBIE BLESSINGS TO ALL LUV GingerD :)
