Hi,

I participate on several of the forums for information on different methods of NBE. I was excited to join the BO forum at yahoo thinking I would gain so more information about BO since it seems to have started awhile ago. However the forum is not very active. One thing I noticed is that it seemed as if having such a mix of male and female participants did not really help. Men have such different needs as far as growth. The women really could not help the men and the men really couldnt help the women. If there are enough men on this site maybe Eve could start a separate forum for them. Believe me it has nothing to do me not wanting men to grow breasts. I just noticed how ineffective that forum seems.

Also Eve maybe pictures could be separated into ones with before and after shots. I am really not sure if the pictures of only before use of NBE shots are really that helpful. This of course is only my opinion. Also how about herbal vs BO as well? The male picture could be another category and could be categorized similarly-hormonal vs herbal.

I am not trying to be controversial, just a way to organize the growing number of pics

Any thoughts? Anyone really care?

of course, it is all up to eve... but a few things.

regarding our gentlemen: since there is only one male who has posted his pics so far, i dont think his pic needs its own section... nor are there enough men to have a separate forum for them. sure there are a few, but they can read and encourage us to keep doing our research. sometimes when you are doing research for someone else it is the best time to get information for yourself that you may not have seen before.

regarding the pics: perhaps simply when a pic gets an update it can move that person to the bottom (or top) of the list, so you will know if there has been an update because of how close it is to the bottom (or top) of the list (that will take care of those that only have a before pic, as these pics will remain at the other end until that person chooses to update, if they choose to do so at all). no need to separate bo from herbal, i dont think, either, because that is what the program pages are for. you look at a pic, then check out their program... helps make an unbiased judgement keeping them together, at least for me.

so thats my thoughts on it, but again, this is eves house!

about the pics. while the pics are there for others to they but some people post them just so we dont have to keep them around and can look at the difference. so if there is only a before pic I could be pulling it up to see the difference between them and now in a mirror. pictures aren't necessarily for the viewer, they could be for the poster as well. but i do like the idea of the newer ones being at the top (or bottom). just my thoughts. good luck to all.

The latest pictures already appear at the top of the list. I made that change a few days ago.

I read another post about organizing the photos and this is what came to me. Sometimes I have to scan through the photos a few times to find a particular profile because I do not try to memorize the names. This is a popular forum and I think eventually better organization of the photos would help. Not just the new pics vs old. Some of the best programs and pics are from the older members like Surf and Helen. I really think pics help people decide on what program they might try not just the profile. I know I have not read all the programs listed,the pics guide me to which program I might like to try. People can take before photos and look at them at home and not post necessarily if it is just for them especially as some of these before photos are pretty old and have not been updated.

About the men, Some of the other forums are really becoming inactive and this forum is referenced alot so the number of men may or may not pick up. If it does this may or may not be an option. As someone posted earlier this is Eves house and wonderfully run so it was just a suggestion.

Anonymous,

This comes up every once in a while. I have seen a few boards completely lose their female membership due to male breast growers (transvestites I believe is the technical term) flooding the board with their messages. Most women don't express any objection to their presence, but end up voting with their feet. What eventually happens is that as the number of male growers posting increases, it will hit a point where the number of women posting decreases until all women leave the board. At least, that was my observation. It took about two years to run full cycle, as I remember.

The problem is that male growers start participating in the female growing as if they are the same subject and it ends up confusing the issue(s).

The theories behind using herbs to grow breasts are inseparably linked with the menstrual cycle, the female steroid hormone profile and the steroid hormone cascade as it applies to women. There are sometimes vast differences from individual women to woman, let alone introducing men into the equation(s).

Again, I'm not trying to be offensive, just clear as to my observations of other boards and that growing breasts on women is a very different subject than growing them on men in spite of some few similarities.

The question for Eve is whether the focus of her board is on growing breasts on women, or growing on both.

I think both would be more efficiently served with separate boards specializing on each subject as has been done here with BO, herbs, etc. Whether Eve decides to host male breast growers by starting another board for them, or just allowing them to use the other boards that are out there in cyberspace already dedicated to the subject (consult Google) is a decision that she will have to make.

I did have a question and an observation on gelatin but I'll post those in the appropriate place.

This is one of the most well organized boards that I have ever seen and she is to be commended for a job well done!

Just passing by and adding my two cents,

Wahaika




The early bird gets the worm, but it is the second mouse who gets the cheese.

I dont think organizing the pictures should be taken as a criticism if it being taken this way. If there is a pile of papers on the desk it is harder to know whats there. However, if the papers are organized into a logical organization scheme it is usually more efficient to locate and use the information. Okay it easy to see that I need to straighten my desk at work.

Useful trends may be noticed if the information is organized

There are all kinds of ways it it could be done. For example the Greenbush testimonials are organized according to response within one month, by 3 months, after 3 mos or something like that. There is a new pic and the person has used brava that might be something a brava user would like to see without sifting through all the pics.

Of course this requires some work and I'm sure Eve is busy. Everyone who participates in this forum agrees Eve is doing a wonderful job and that is not even in question.

Successful people usually plan ahead and this forum is definitely growing. I do not think it is a bad idea to consider new suggestions because only good can from the brainstorming.

Personally I like how the before pictures are posted along with updated photos. They show the different ways people grow at different stages.

Wahaika, thanks for your observations. The answer to the question you posed is that the focus of the forum has always been intended to be on natural breast enhancement for women. Although a few men have made their presence known, so far this does not seem to have caused any problems and neither has anyone complained about it, and therefore I have allowed them to continue to be part of the forum. However, the point you made about the forum possibly being flooded with messages from men has been noted, and in reply I can say that this must not be allowed to happen. As you rightly say, we are really dealing with two separate subjects and if there is too much participation by male growers in the female growing issues it seems inevitable that this would cause confusion. Accordingly, in the event of the number of male visitors here increasing, a separate forum can be created for male breast growers to maintain a sensible separation between the two different subjects. This should be seen as a benefit to male breast growers, as they will be able find any information that is specific to them much more easily in their own specialist forum than if they had to pick it all out from the main forum.

Thanks Eve!