I'm panicking. I have no idea what I'm going to do! My rent is extremely high, I go to school and I have to pay for things constantly, groceries are expensive, and I've got about a billion bills to pay! I don't know how I'm going to survive. The job I had paid me very well and I got it after I completed an internship that I started in my high school senior year. I can't find any other job that pays me as well.
I really don't think I can do NBE anymore. I'm so stressed out! I really don't want to quit! This is only my 36th day! What am I going to do?
Consider calling people in your support circle and maybe they have some job leads. Consider a temp agency if that is available in your area. What about being a personal assistant? You are young so you have plenty time to grow boobies. Maybe you could do a less expensive program temporarily-ex. Vitex,SP(or nettle root),massage(CB),and/or herbal teas. Also you may have more time to incorporate push ups. This may give you a break and you may even grow more when you resume your program. Lets see if anyone else has more advice. Keep your chin up.
I'm sorry! If I were in your shoes and couldn't afford to keep up my individual herb program I would just do the vitex because it's very cheap and if there were any one item by itself that it seems like people have had good luck with it would be that. Also continue massages, even if you can only do them with a cheap cream that doesn't contain the boobie growers in it. Maybe this will get you by until your situation improves. Keep thinking positive boobie growing thoughts too! :-)
Sorry to hear about your job situation. Will keep a good thought for you that you find another job soon that'll pay you just as well as your last job or better. Keep your spirits up. Stay calm and focused. You won't be able to think well if you are stressed or panicking. Sleep on it. Think about your options, weigh the pros and cons and decide on an action plan. Good luck. Our thoughts are with you.
boobies06 - I'm also sorry to hear about your job, I would feel stressed out too. I agree with everyones advice here, try to stay calm and do massages if you can. Take care and we'll all be thinking of you!
relax... it feels like the end of the world, but it isnt. there are jobs out there... if you were fired for downsizing, i am sure there are others in your situation right now. keep a support network and start making some phone calls to other friends you might have in the same job field or the job field you want to be in. if there are no leads, do as chloe said and consider working outside your field... now is not the time for pride and figuring out your dream job, now is the time to make some cash! also check with your university. sometimes there are positions for students, such as resident advisors, teaching assistants, and admin jobs that can help to sustain you. your focus needs to stay on school and getting your rent paid!!
stay calm and do your massages... they help relax you. focus, meditate, and take action so that you know something is happening and you dont just have it sitting on your mind. then finish out the herbs you have and then if times are still tight go the cheaper routes as suggested...
youll be fine... my heart goes out to you, but you are a strong woman and you are going to be okay!!
Sissy (no login)
Re: Just got a phone call. Horrible news.
January 28 2007, 3:36 PM
I'm sorry that happened to you, but everyone here is giving you good advise. I have found that when something like this happens, it will push you into bigger and better things. If you were making good money, that means that you have skills that are in demand. It's true that temp services are a great place to start. Most employers find their permanent staff this way, I do. Good luck, this could be a turning point in your life!
So sorry to hear about the job loss, must be really tough to handle a situation like that. :|
An inexpensive way to keep doing NBE is to buy the herbs in bulks and get them in the powdered form by using a good mixer. You can always try to make your own extracts too, there are many tutorials on that. Something that I find to be helping in my routine is Tiger Lily's massage with knuckles. You may want to give a try to the yin/yang stuff in your diet, maybe not being overly strict about it, but just making some alterations and take conscience of what may help and what may not - besides, soy is really cheap (well, at least around here anyway!).
About the rest I can't give much advice but I'd just grab the best job possible at the time, and keep searching for a better job, maybe you'll have to consider having two jobs depending on the importance of keeping your current house or moving to a cheaper one. I hope everything turns out for the best, good luck! :)