i haven't, and by now he's certainly noticed the yo-yo boob effect, the frequent smell (i try to be semi-discreet with my massages), and the handfulls of pills.
i am getting ready to tell him, but am concerned about what he'll think
Re: have you told your significant other about nbe?
January 30 2007, 11:50 PM
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i wonder how he reacted, etc. how did other people you know reacted if/when you told them. i haven't told anybody at all, though he would be the first one to guess that something to that effect may be going on. we've been together for about half a year and at this point i am a bit weary of telling him.
just so you know, no one is ignoring you, but if you read back a few pages there was a similar discussion not too long ago!!
i havent told my husband. i like to think it will be a surprise for whenever i get to see him (we dont live together right now because both of us are in the military) but i bet he doesnt even notice. i could roll in there with size fff boobs and he would be like "uh... didja cut your hair?"
Re: have you told your significant other about nbe?
January 31 2007, 10:45 PM
My husband is the more observant type, so I did tell him up front. He would have noticed all the bottles of herbs and the massages and what-not! He's supportive which helps. He knows I want larger boobs but isn't a fan of implants and I think he appreciates that I'm trying this method instead. I think sometimes he's tired of hearing me complain when my boobs hurt, but he's a good sport. We both laugh about it all sometimes, which is good now and then because in this process we're so "breast obsessed" that it can get a little overwhelming at times. The harder part is hiding it from the kids. They don't notice the herbs I take or anything like that, but the other evening after work when I couldn't wait to get out of my bra and let the "gals" have a breather my 9 year old caught me walking around (in my tshirt of course) cradling my boobs in my hands because they were achy, and he said, "what the heck are you doing?" Haha! All that came to mind to say was that sometimes ladies' boobs hurt, that's all. He seemed to accept that answer!
henri that is great... i do that sometimes too... just to see what he can make up on the spot... "is that a... new... shirt??" (when i am wearing a shirt i have had since high school) or "um... your... face... looks... shiny?"
maybe its mean. but its funny anyway...
and lisa, im sure my cat would ask the same questions... she just looks at me funny when i do massages...
Re: have you told your significant other about nbe?
February 1 2007, 7:11 PM
I haven't told a single sole either. I really wanted to, but I feel kind of silly. My husband loves me just the way I am, but I have decided not to tell him until it actually starts working...that way if it doesn't happen for me, he doesn't have to feel sorry for me and I don't have to feel embarassed. I am so so glad that I found you ladies with similar hopes and whishes to chat with.
Re: have you told your significant other about nbe?
February 2 2007, 9:15 PM
Wow, you guys are good. I was thinking about surprising my boyfriend also, but I talk too much, so I told him at the time I haven't even started yet, LOL!
He knew I'm a 32AAAAAAAAAAAA (Not to be dramatic, but seriously, that's probably my cup size) and he has no problem with them at all. I'm the one keeps saying "O my freaking God, my boobs are too small..." "Honey, you're gonna hate me later because I have small boobs, right?" "You watch porno and they all have big boobs, so why the hell you love me?" He only replies to all these questions with one answer, "Baby, I love you because who you are, not how you look. And plus, you seem beautiful to me."
And being all that annoying, I wouldn't go for implants, or taking expensive dangerous pills, so when I found a natural healthy method as NBE, I couldn't wait to tell him. He was happy too. When I saw him smiling when I told him about NBE, I was kind of sad because I thought eventually he does want a girlfriend with bigger boobs. And then he said to me, "I'm happy for you because then you'll be REALLY happy, and you'll realize I love you no matter how you look like. When this work or not, I'm gonna be here for you all the time." And I melted right into his hug...
There goes my boobie-fairy-tail. I'm pretty sure because of him, even if it doesn't work, I'll still have my fairy-tail, just take out the boobie part. I knew your signnificant others are the same also. Good luck ladies~
Re: have you told your significant other about nbe?
February 3 2007, 12:33 AM
I told, as he is extremely observant anyway. He told me that my boobs were perfect just the way they were and I didn't need them any bigger. I said, "Liar." He grinned. I know he likes my boobs. My nips, at least-- he's crazy about them. But he's into the BE thing and tells me when he thinks they're getting bigger. It's cute.
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