Hi Faerycat, sorry I know this is a little off topic but like Wonderbride i am fascinated by spirit guides and was wondering how you connect with your spirit guide, can only some people do it or does every one have the ability?
I've been quite depressed recently and went to see a woman who is very into angels, guides etc and she told me they were watching over me and to look out for signs and that my guides and angels would come to me, i've really tried but nothing has happened at all.
I'm all fired up about this again now so I'm going to have a scout around the internet see what I can find out. Any info or tips you can give would be much appreciated.
I'm really glad that you are feeling better! I've had candidias and its excruciating, oh yeah and cranberry juice does seem to help.
Sorry to hear you have been feeling down lately. Depression is not a lot of fun, but you can beat this.
Ok, you ask about guides. I feel that every one of us has the ability to tune into our angels/guides/higher power etc.....(label as you see fit). I don't think there is any right or wrong way to do it.
The way I see it from my angle is - the only time that matters is RIGHT NOW. Sadly, many people spend their time clinging to their past and dwelling on all the negative things that happened to them, OR they spend all their time worrying about tomorrow or next week or next year and so on.
The thing is, the only time that matters in right now. Now in this second is ALL we ever have. Yesterday has gone and we cannot change it. Tomorrow has not arrived yet so why worry about it. Right now is all we have. Sadly, very few people live in the right now, therefore, their minds are always elsewhere, fretting about something. Allowing their pasts to consume them.
Higher power is there with each of us all the time, but finds it hard to reach each of us as many minds are so pre-occupied with past and future worry/hurt/pain/guilt etc (usually negative thought patterns).
By coming to realise that all that matters is NOW. By coming to learn that we are in the driving seats of our own lives, we are in control. By coming to learn that all the negative baggage we carry around is holding us back from moving on and being free and that it needs to be released from our thought patterns and programming. By learning to live in the present and finding happiness within ourselves/hearts/souls/minds we discover an inner peace, a calmness.........
..........And when that happens, our channels are clear and free to connect with higher sources. Am I making sense? I hope so.
Have you ever done any yoga or meditation sarah? I feel you might just benefit from it. Also, have you ever considered a reiki therapy? I hit an all time low a number of years ago and came so close to ending my life. Ironically I was guided to a reiki master who offered me a course of treatments.....a gift that literally changed my life forever. I was so impressed at the outcome that I went on to learn it for myself. I use it on my young son who has autism and it has calmed him down tremendously too.
I also do crystal healing work and have a massive crystal collection as well as healing crystal skulls.....lol, and no they are not the least bit scary.
Follow your intuition petal. Learn to appreciate what you have. Learn to love yourself.......you are a unique and special being. Learn to know yourself. Embrace NOW and let go of negative thought patterns. You are in control remember.
Faerycat--I see someone else is into finding out about the magic/light that surrounds us. Thank you for your post. I too try to concentrate on the now and live in the moment. We all have concerns about our selves/loved ones, regarding different things and it's easier to handle it one day at a time. Even though I don't HEAR my guides I KNOW that I've been blessed and thing always work out somehow. btw, your pictures look great! I've grown about 3 1/2" so far but since I started out nearly flat I'm just a 36A small 36B now. It's been over a year and I'm trying hard to be patient. Didn't grow any last month. Want to be a full 36C(2+ inches to go). I seem to remember you posted a link about a BE spell a while back. What do you think? Will it work? I'd love to be able to grow 2" in 8-10 weeks! I wish I could hurry up and get to my goal already so I can stop obsessing over boobs...lol
Sarah--Sorry you've been depressed lately. You know, goji berry is an anti depression/keeps you smiling away food! It's good for a lot of other things too. Maybe you can try eating some. Don't worry be happy sarah. When you think and feel happy you'll attract more things that will keep you happy. Take care :)
Wow wonderbride, you have done really well to grow so much. Congratulations to you and may you continue to blossom :-)
Do I think the BE spells would work? Hmm, I think your signature answers that one - Whatever the mind can conceive, it can achieve...
.....But beware of unscrupulous people who do anything to rip you off. If it doesn't feel right in any way, then don't go there.
Yeah, the thing about guides is they can be quite subtle in their communications. It isn't always so 'in your face' or clear cut in black and white. More often than not, a thought will come into your head out off the blue. The thought can be the message.......and you end up thinking about it and nodding and saying 'oh yeah.' Other times you can be guided to events or to meet with certain people which will have life changing consequences. But the more you recognise the signs, then the stronger your bonds will become.
Like, do you ever sit still sometimes and just smile and radiate a feeling of love......then suddenly your solar plexus (that bit in your middle of your torso), starts to spin and jump? Again this is confirmation to let you know that you are loved and safe and not alone :-)
All women are goddesses and we have amazing powers.......sadly many women have forgotten this. It is time for women to reclaim their powers and remember who they really are.
Good luck in your journey. Just remember one important thing - The truth to everything lies within.
As a person who has suffered from depression, I understand how difficult it can be, at first, to believe that things will get better.
I found and like Zensight (I posted about this in another thread) for healing things and manifesting what you truly need and desire. I prefer it to EFT. I feel it's more comprehensive and simpler to do - she really guides you through things. You can simply read the author's words and imagine your healing symbol as you go (this is explained in the book). The author studied and practiced many different healing methods (conventional and non-conventional) and developed Zensight as a result.
http://www.zensightprocess.com/index.shtml
I bought her MP3 for manifesting things. http://www.zensightprocess.com/shop.htm
It's in the book, but I like to hear her voice. I think that she has a nice, very calm and soothing voice - very caring.
Here is a daily affirmation e-mail service you can subscribe to for free:
I do hypnosis, which also helps to release blocks and rewires me to form in the image and way that I desire, but I would love suggestions about how to magnify my belief in all of this. I encounter doubts a lot, and know that that is a problem.
This message has been edited by Lillea on Dec 24, 2007 7:39 AM
I can relate to what you're saying. What ever questions I might have, I always get an answer somehow. Whether it's something I look up on the internet or thoughts, things, or people appear to me. I know that if I look within I really already know the truth but sometimes it's good to have another opinion...
Thank you for the encouragement. I believe I'll get to my BE goal eventually but sometimes I wish there was a way to speed it up somehow. lol... just being impatient ;) To the goddes within...
tittyboy-- yes, we are light and are part of the light that surrounds us. We are all interconnected and are part of one. :)
In a round about way this kind of info does have alittle do with NBE,, being our state of mind,, I guess,,. Anyway ladies I was wondering if like some of the other topics that have come up here if it would be possible for things like THIS ONE,, to have a forum of its own ,,under Eve's of course,, like the other topics on the resourse page. I hope you see this one Eve, and give some suggestions,, and give the girls a page to share this kind of info.
You said "I would love suggestions about how to magnify my belief in all of this".
Am not sure if any suggestions can help you do anything to magnify your beliefs as all feelings have to come from within you to begin with. Just try to remember as I said before, that you/we are in the driving seat of your/our own lives.
In saying that what I mean is - sometimes it is easy to forget that we have choices for every single matter that comes along. When we are feeling low due to depression or other factors, our judgements can become clouded and we don't see the picture so clearly. At times it feels easier to get swept along in the negative wave because we can feel that it is all we deserve or that we are worthless. This is the mind playing tricks ;-)
When one can reclaim their power or step back into their own power and say 'hey, I'm the one that's in charge, I'm the one who's gonna call the shots', then that's when things begin to turn around.
Like I say, we all have choices. We can choose to be happy or choose to be sad, choose to move forwards or choose to stay still, etc etc etc, covering every option available.
I went through years of abuse and felt so low and worthless, scared, useless, unworthy etc (notice the use of the negative words). I ended up on anti-depressants, rocking back and forth with staring eyes.....lol. That was not living, that was a living hell.
One day something happened and I realised, or should I say, remembered that I had the power to stop it. By saying to the hurt and the pain and torment and agony and all the feeling of worthlessness - I DON'T WANT YOU ANY MORE. I NO LONGER WISH TO EXPERIENCE YOU. BAD FEELINGS GO AWAY!!! At that point, they stopped, because I refused to let them into me.
Beforehand, I accepted it all because I forgot I was able to make the choices in whether or not to accept or refuse them. It sounds mad, but it does work :-)
On reflection now, I realised now that I allowed myself to suffer and partly enjoyed the suffering in a strange kind of way.......because I allowed myself to believe I was worthless thus deserved bad treatment. But I KNOW that I'm not and NO ONE is!!
We just have to realise that we can make choices.
Positivity creates and attracts positivity. Likewise for negativity But we are stronger than all the negs put together and if we don't allow them into our lives then they cannot continue to create.
Yes, our state of mind and NBE are interconnected ( everything is)......and as wonderbride's siggy says - Whatever the mind can conceive, it can achieve...
You are sooo right hun :-)
x
Sarah L (no login)
Thank you!!
February 12 2007, 9:55 PM
Wow, I've been away for a few days so this is the first chance I've had to check out the board, thank you so much for your posts, they are all so informative and encouraging.
I feel a bit daft actually, I was looking for the more 'in your face' sort of a sign like an cloud in the shape of an angel or something like that, I will start to look for more subtle signs and maybe I will be able to pick up on them better.
Thank you also for all the tips; meditation, yoga, special food etc. I have done yoga before but not for many years, i will look into it and see if i can find a local class, I always enjoyed it and i think it will help to relax me.
It's such a fascinating subject and so great to think there are angels/spirit guides, helping us and showing us the way.
Thanks again girls, I've printed off the thread so i can refer to it whenever i want! I'll let you know if anything major happens!
