I have smaller breasts than any other woman I know...Even thoughI have grown a little, I know that I will never have the C cups most of my friends have and show off with cleavage tops.Am i condemned to wear turtle neck blouses for all my life???I am also afraid that if I break up with my boyfriend I will be alone for the rest of my life because I will be insecure to get undressed in front of another man and I am afraid that he won't like me.

Hugs to you girl!! I also do not like my hubby looking at my boobs. Lights out for me. lol He on the other hand thinks I look perfect. I'm a 34aa and have always told him I wanted a boob job and he always talks me out of it (thank goodness). When I told him I was looking into a way of growing my breasts naturally he was supportive but still insists he loves them the way they are and that I don't need to change. If any man only loves you for the size of your breasts then that is a man to stay away from... you don't want him anyway. There are alot of men out there that will love you for just being you. I think us women are more fixated on our breasts then men. Hang in there hun!!!

The only thing I can suggest is that you take a chance and wear those low-cut tops anyways. I did that once at a bachelorette party where all the girls had HUGE boobs. I didn't look obscene like a large-breasted woman would and I kinda had fun being the skinny one. It's not that bad! That night did wonders for my confidence.

Stay positive. The frame of mind that allows you to believe that you will never be a C cup or that you're afraid to have to show your naked body to anyone is the frame of mind that will produce negative results. You can't be both faithful and fearful at the same time, you have to pick one and go for it full blast. What you think about, you bring about. I'm not trying to minimize how you feel, I have compassion for what you've said. But it truly is that simple.......your frame of mind about something makes what you fear actually have more power. Whether you think you can, or you can't, you are right.

god i know its hard isnt it? im just sick of feeling less important than all those other women, like they're better than me or something. they're not, trust me, but sometimes its easy to forget that. as for ur boyfriend, u have to do whats best for u (coming from the girl whos STILL with her bf whos always yelling and putting her down) but u have to make sure u take care of urself, even though its hard

Thank you all for your kind words!We all have our good and bad days...Unfortunately my bad days are always a result of poor self esteem just because of my breast size...Anyway I am a little better today!