Tamara,
Hopeful is not leaving because of anything you said. She is angry and frustrated about her NBE journey and about what others were saying.
You just need to focus on the positive things you can do for your own health. The healthier you are, the better your body will grow. Positive attitudes are one of the best ways to affect our health and you can learn to be positive even if it does not come easy to you.
Don't take on any more stress than what your life already gives you. In my opinion you really don't need to worry about how your body is developing, but I understand how you feel, because after all I once was 12 myself.
Keep posting - we would all love to hear from you. But be careful. Almost everything that is used for breast growth here is used by grown women and is not appropriate for young girls or teens. Don't try any herbs or pills -you could seriously hurt yourself and your chances for normal growth. Don't believe what your friends tell you about NBE - check with us and we will give you good advice.
As I have pointed out before you are smart, so use those smarts and read all you want, but be very careful with your health. We all want what is best for you.
I will miss your posts Hopefull as you seemed to always find information I was looking for and you were always so positive, a lot of your posts cracked me up. I don't really know what is going on...but sometimes you cannot take to heart what others say especially if they are not supporting you. I hope you will change your mind.
:( Hopeful i wish you'll change your mind.Haven't been on the forum for some time.Just take a break and start again with something new.You can do it girl!!
Awww Hopeful why do you want to leave, what's this about? Did I miss sth arround here?? I'm not completely sure who you are annoyed with, but I did also see some sortof negative messages more or less directed to me, but hey it doesn't bother me, everyone has the right to their opinion, I know I have a rather difficulout character and that lots of people are not gonna like me and fall into conflict with me, but I just approach these conflicts in a sortof impersonal manner, facts straight. Such is life, some people will always annoy us but some we will like a lot, I think it's would be a shame and a waste to always lose sth because of the first group. You'd be missed if you left, and there are still a few good boobie opptions that you could try, don't give up NBE because of this!
This message has been edited by -Moon- on May 14, 2008 12:22 PM
I don't think Hopeful will respond, she said she deleted the website off her favorites list, and has no plans of returning right away. At this point I think she is going to take an indefinite break from NBE, without going into to much information, she has gotten to the point of many of us, and feels its just time to back off and start spending her time enjoying other things.
There are some of us that progress wonderfully to NBE and others of us that struggle with it never really make much progress, and over time it can really take a toll.
Awwwh what happened to HOPEFUL !!!!!!!
What even happened I haven't been here in a few days. I am going to find out somehow. She needs to returrnnnnnnnn... :/
but hopeful its just 8 months! i've been doing this for 2 years and i'm only just starting to see results, minimal and hardly noticable they may be but still! maybe taking a break will be good but don't leave us forever!
