OK maybe this sounds trivial but I have one, kinda silly, idea that will increase positivity for us NBE girls.

Look at the screenname you chose for yourself - does it say something positive about you? Or something negative?

I've seen screennames like Smallboobies or Saggyboobies, basically stuff like Small___ Saggy____ Tiny____

So maybe yours are. But why draw attention to it?

If your screenname is Saggyboobs, think WantToBePerky.
If your name is Littleones, think, GettingBigger.

Just a thought. :P

By the way, I chose the name Sailorvenus44 because Venus is my favorite planet (also considered very feminine) and 4 is my favorite number. (And also because Sailor Venus used to be my favorite Sailor Moon character. hahaha!!!)

Venus is also a feminine goddess - very symbolic!

Hmmm, I chose Lillypilly because it rhymed :)

Wonderful way to boost our self esteem!!!!!

I chose laisegirl cuz' laise is my middle name(pronounced lace). After a good friend of mine found out that was my middle name, he decided to call me only that and added "girl" to it.

My duaghter is due in July, she is having a girL!!!! My daughter is named after me - first and middle- and ow she is going to name HER daughter after us sooooo I am gonna call my new little granddaughter Laise!!!!

anyway....cheers to all!!!!
Laisegirl

You're so right, Sailorvenus44!! (By the way, I loved Salior Moon back in the day!) My name represents one of the three Charites to the Greek goddess Aphrodite (or, in Roman mythology, Venus). Antheia was the goddess of flowers, flowery wreaths, and blossoms, so I though that it was appropriate for NBE (the whole blossoming thing.)

Keep up the positive attitude!

Nicely put..I agree some women can be self loathing and down on themselves which causes even poorer self body image and even lower self esteem.

I choose BlackDiamond b/c it is very rare,beautiful,exotic and stands out of the crowd(like muah lol)It's very positive also.I put 27 b/c that is the day of my birthday.

While we are on the topic of being positive to yourself I will share something for all the small breasted girls who think there is no hope in getting a big change(if you know what I mean :-)).You can do it.1 story is of a girl I know (my sister went to school with her in high school)the other is of me.1st I'll share the one of the girl (who is now 22)


Okay this girl I won't say her name it starts with a V so I will call her V.V was in 9th grade with A cups beautiful girl all the girls (and boys)teased her all the girls bragged how they were bigger than her in the halls they taunted her b/c it made them feel that they had big tits even if they were not just compared to her.They called her itty bitty titty committe and what not.

Note:This girl was like 5'6 94 lbs.

They said she was ugly and had a big gap in her teeth and what not.She still remained a confident girl and walked with her little freshmen head up high as if she was the bustiest girl in the school.

(It's not a easy to do for many teen girls when guys are saying it also.)

Then by the 10th grade this same girl who could barely fill out a A cup bra was walking in the school with not b cups,not c cups,you guessed it D CUPS! Now all the girls and boys who talked that mess was speechless and had all the freshmen,junior,sophomore and senior girls who bragged and taunted her now had A cups compared to her lol.She was still like 90 pounds on top of that so they looked even bigger!!

Rumors spead that she had implants and what not so on a trip they went to the beach and she wore a bikini that was too small so the kids could see they were hers.Man did she shut them up!!As you guessed it the same guys that dissed her now wanted to be nice to her etc.(pendejos lol)

11th grade came by they were DD cups and she was the most like 103 pounds WHOA!!

Point of the story is never say never.Even if you don't feel that can be you it goes to show you anything is possible so don't self loathe.


Now on to me my reason for being here is different from everyone else's I joined to answer a question about pcos and while boob growth was not my reason for taking the herb I actually had a very very noticeably breast growth b/c of it and wanted to tell a young lady who had similar condition as I did.I believe my hormone imbalance stunted my growth and when I took this herb(1st of all I thank God for me being able to come across it and for putting a label on what we now know as PCOS) b/c when I was 10 I had no knowledge why I got acne and why I had a lot of pubic hair at 4 YEARS OLD!!(talk about a hormone imbalance!!).

I know, I know what works for 1 doesn't for another blah blah (lol) but if it works for me I damn sure am going to spread the word to a woman who sounds to have similar conditions as me so she can possibly find a herb that may just may help her also ya know?(I know I'm kind,I know lol) but anyways...

I never was taunted like V but I did have a "friend" I met in 4th grade who was on the chunky side she would always make comments about how I was small(I was like 8,9,10,11,12,13,14,15, at the time I mean how big does she want me to be lol)and she would come off as so proud of her.."big boned" body yet she always would criticize slim girls.I never had problems with my smaller boobs I wore my head high "oh Rosa you will always be like that I have big boobs you don't"etc(she was a fat girl why wouldn't she lol)I could of called her fat,I could of bragged how my stomach was flat b/c she always talked about how she wants a flat stomach and whatever but I never put her down.

I could of felt sorry for myself and got low self esteem but nope I stayed confident and never envied a bigger busted girl.She on the other hand not only envied smaller bodied women but downed them and attempted to cover her low self esteem with fake confident of herself.Well lo and behold smaller boobed Rosa vanished and full boobed Rosita appeared still with a flat stomach at that a.k.a everything I knew she envied about smaller women.As for her she still was a big girl with a big stomach to match her "big boobs" she oh so claimed she loved.Now karma can be a b.i.t.c.h hahaha!!.

Moral of the story ladies is don't self loathe even when you have something about your body that you rather not have just keep a positive mind like sailor44 said keep your head high like V and I did and good things(boobies)just might come to ya ya know?Downing yourself won't make your boobs,your thighs,your eyes,your hair,your life change it will only make you self conscious more than what you are.

All ladies keep your heads up whether small breasted,medium,large,saggy,perky,chocolate tittied,vanilla tittied,banana tittied(yes I said banana lol)or strawberry tittied we are all mamacitas bonitas and don't let no man or jealous friend or in this case yourself tell you different.(those combination titty flavors sure made want some sweets now lol)

Stay up ladies

Rosa a.k.a BlackDiamond27