Ok last i checked we were all here together on this journey to gain/share information on NBE, hormone balance and improve our self esteem and have few laughs along the way.
Lately it's become a battle ground. Spammers need to be pointed out cuz that's not what this forum is about, and this has been done with few words...simple and to the point...which is all that is needed.
However, some of the responses (from the supposed spammers)have gotten down right nasty. What do some feel they will accomplish by calling names and other nasty comments? C'mon, girls...are we in high school or are we adults?
Those of you that are spammers, please exit out right now and respect our journey...and I wish you good luck in whatever it is you are selling, just please don't do it here. This forum is not about profit, is it about helping one another the best we can.
Let's get back to the basics of this forum and cut out the nastiness and negativity.....it's not needed here.
Let's enjoy this journey together, cheer each other on and support our NBE sisters the best we can!!!!!!
I know you have been around long enough to have seen things like this before. Everything is peaceful only for a little while. Then someone comes along and creates chaos, whether intentionally or unintentionally.
I agree, if you ignore people the people who are trying to cause trouble, they will go away. Some people love drama in their life, it is almost like they pursue 'trouble', you can bet your bottom dollar there would be a list of people in their personal life they are fighting with. I certainly don't agree with name calling and insults, I watch Dr Phil and he says nobody has the right to call anyone names. :) :) :)
It is a lesson though, perhaps people should be a little kinder to newbies, if you see a newbie question and it bothers you just don't answer it - let someone else pick it up.
Perhaps the main page should be reorganised so that the newbie and massage section is at the top and the 'enter main forum' part is underneath, so that people can read the basic info before entering. At the moment it just directs all people into the main forum, and so the same questions get asked...
I'm as you know the "supposed spammer".Let me ask you something why did it have to come this far in order for you and other other women to acknowledge the situation and that socal was harassing me?
Why didn't anyone confront "SouthernCalifornia" about it after I POLITELY said I am me not some spammer over and over again?
Spammer for what?Girl please,I came to this site by accident.Rosa loves her tits even when they were small.I was searching for pcos and insulin on yahoo when I saw a listing on yahoo on this site about a woman who asked a ? for insulin resistance and slim women something to that nature.So I after reading what she wrote,me being slim,and having pcos and having experience with what comes with it and a herb that helped me I commented(b/c this is America and that's my right).I told her about how I never had a problem with my boob size or whatever (even when they were small) and did not get on the herb for boobs but for balancing hormones BUT while I was on it I noticed a change in my boob size b/c my hormones were being balanced.I was not signed up b/c I came here by accident so when I commented as Rosa it never showed up so I figured it didn't go through b/c I had not signed in.
So I had signed in and wrote the same thing under Blackdiamond27 this time it went through.Little did I know my first comment under Rosa went through I guess the next day.So my 1st comment under Rosa said the same thing as BlackDiamond27.Next thing I know I am being slandered.
It looks a little something like this..
BlackDiamond27(RosaEsHermosa@yahoo.com)is spammer.She sells/promotes a book website,erroneous (blah blah blah)
So I being very surprise correct her..(politely that is)common sense says to get the pic, apologize to me, and stop(I figured she although rude about it had made a mistake and that was the only time she would do it) but nooo over and over and over that I write even on what helped me with pcos she has the nerve to say "unlike what BlackDiamond27 said for pcos she is spam" how in the hell is she going to debunk what has worked for me and what I HAVE(pcos) all b/c she has it in her head I don't have pcos I am selling something or whatever and that I am spam.
I am helping people with the pcos and similar things I know about and if she wanna act childish even when I politely correct her over and over and noone wants to come to my aid and tell her to stop being a cyber bully and she still talk crap b/c she don't comprehend mature talk then I will dummy down on her level so she can understand me then I will come back up.
Why don't she be a woman and respond to me instead of posting slanderous lies over and and over and over like the spam that SHE is.
Why don't you guys take up for the underdog and put the bully in check?
Why did I have to turn into what Socal was doing to get your attention?
You do realize if I never wrote what I wrote you and everyone else(except Mariah) would of have kept ignoring her bullying, not of commented on the situation,and she would her still do it right?Sad.
Socal is the real spam.Posting crap over and over.How in the hell is she going to debunk what I put for pcos?I have it she does not.She is so focused on I am spam she won't listen to anything her mind is gone.She needs antidepressants or something.I told her politely oh I am not I am new must of did something wrong with the names etc.Common sense says to stop move the hell on I mean nothing I wrote can say I am a spammer.Spammers are so lame I can't stand them on youtube why would I do that.
You might disagree what I wrote but let's see if she still harasses me.Sometimes passive people finish last.I did the passive approach and it got ignored.Sometimes you need to bring out the aggressive in you to get the job done as in this case.Hopefully this will teach you all to not ignore people and don't wait tell it escalate to do something b/c then it could be too late.
I did read all the posts these past few days. I did not defend or come to anyones rescue b/c it was not my fight. I am not one to say whether someone is a spammer or not. I only wrote this message to try to get everyone back on track...to get this forum peaceful and back to it's purpose.
Whether one is here to increase breast size, regulate hormones or any other reasons....we are here to help and trade information.
I will continue to come here b/c I have gotten some very good information about several issues...I have learned ALOT! And when a battle starts between people, i will not get in the middle....except to maybe bring peace....can't help it, it's my nature.
So as i voiced in another thread this morning...let's clean the slate ya'll and bring peace back to this forum and get back the the reasons we are all here.
Laisegirl
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