Does this really work for us? My girls are so depleted after 4 pregnancies and breast feeding. I do see a slight difference after just 2 weeks of massage and I have realistic expectations, I know I will not see change over night. But is it possible to be too far gone for NBE to help?
No,you are never "too far gone." However,you do have to find what works for you.You're right.....it is a slow process,but it WILL happen.Don't let other people's skeptical beliefs get in your way.Some people believe the only way to increase size is by breast implants.Here's my personal testament:I was very full and ample,then I wasn't.That didn't happen overnight,and neither will NBE.I don't want instant gratification,as I have perseverence and patience.I'm hard-headed,and I have learned to use it the right way.The more that people say,it will never work,the more determined I become.I used to just wilt and give up......though that was many,many years ago.I would let that negative,pessimistic garbage consume me.Remember,what you think about,you bring about.I look at it this way: Some people when they garden or landscape will go out and buy the most developed,expensive shrubs,bushes,flowers,etc.,and VOILA! have the most instant results.However,I am on a budget,so I buy starter plants.And you know what? I have found that by nurturing my plants,I have gotten to experience that growth and say,"Hey,I did that.I got the puniest plant and cared for it and made it blossom and let it come into is own." Way more rewarding.Same goes for NBE.It may sound corny,but that's how I view things.I have these stretch marks on my boobs (I call them boobs again instead of tits),that are actually changing position and getting thinner because they are expanding due to growth.So,you know your body better than anyone else,so if you notice changes (no matter how subtle),then something is happening.Is some of it wishful thinking? Maybe....but,positive thoughts are part of this process,too.Try getting a bra with no padding and trying it on.Do it privately and just see if you feel it out a little more.I have gained about 1/2 cup in 2 months time,but actually started noticing after the first month.I'm talking,full at the bottom,but nothing on top or sides.They had actually disintegrated.They call this atrophy of the breast----you lose mass and fat.Now,I'm round and wider,as well as fuller all over.Light blue veins underneath the skin.I forgot I used to have those when I used to be fuller chested until I saw them again.I would swell some before my period,but hardly at all and no veins underlying.Mostly just tender.I am actually wearing pretty,lacy support bras without underwire and that are only very lightly padded(I don't like my nips to poke out).Plus,they will stretch and that way,I'm not buying new bras every month.Plus,I am a smoker,but I'm still getting results.Try ramping up your program along with the massage.There is plenty of info here about herbs and programs.Don't sell yourself short.Just keep going.This is a great place to come to not only when in doubt,but daily.I'm hooked.Good luck to you.
Thanks Mel. So I decided for my own sanity that I am going to take little breaks on the weekend from all of my self improvement projects including NBE. I felt much better doing so and to be honest I did see a difference with the work I"ve done so far in giving myself a break. I think I was getting overwhelmed because I have also been working on getting rid of my stretch marks or at least fading them to a point where I have self esteem with my body! I am very confident in my appearance, and feel sexy until the clothes come off, although that has really been changing the past couple of months, my body has improved alot thanks to hard work!! Weight is not the issue, I am a small woman, it is just the damage from pregnancies.
I agree with you, I really don't want to resort to surgery, that would be out of desperation if the time ever comes. Listen, I am a single, strong willed mommy, I don't give up on anything in life, never have, never will, I have been through much bigger trials and tribulations, I'm a very strong, positive, independent woman, so I am not going to give up on this either.
One of these days I am going to post my program page. I did keep track of the date I started however :) So it has been about 2 1/2 weeks. There is a difference in that little bit of time but I know it is going to take much more time to see real results. I can't wait!
Before kids I was a full and perky 36B. After 4 kids I have become a lifeless B. Since I started they have become more full though. That makes me happy. The real test will be to see as they grow which direction they go when I lay down! LOL!
My goal is to wear a bikini this summer for the first time in years and feel dam sexy doing so!!
Thanks Double Ace!! If I do then I will definately post pics because that will be a BIG accomplishment for me, I have lived in capris over the years during the summer thanks to even having scars on my upper thighs, scars and deflated boobies not pretty lol. I like your posts, you seem very positive :) Definately be proud of your girls, at least they have some life to them lol!! :)
