Hi everyone and a happy new year to you all lets hope this one will be better for us.
I am back looking for some advice.
I have been separated from my WH now since Oct 2011 and its been a rollercoaster as some of you can imagine.
He has been cruel and hostile at times and over the christmas he took great joy in calling to the house to see his sons and pretending to miss me then totally ignoring me when I tried to contact him.
Anyway I have discovered that he and MOW are in constant communication via phone and email and I am absolutly stunned,not because they are in touch but by how they are treating her BS,he took her back after WH came back to me for 2 nights.
I dont know whether to contact him or not though as WH blames me for everything I cant look any worse in his mind,
Its not that I am afraid to contact her BS its just that I feel that is what they want me to do and I dont want to do anything that will make them happy.
They have a mutual work friend who arranged the truce between them when they split up after WH came home for the 2 nights and that makes me mad,how can this woman who is only young do this for them and think it is alright to help them continue to cheat,and how can WH use this girl so cruelly.
He hasnt seen his 2 sons now since christmas day and of course its my fault as I have told him I dont want him here,he has his own cosy apartment now so bring them there its not as if they are babies they are 21 and 23.He was a great father and I cant believe this is who he has become,though as MOW doesnt have kids I suppose she wouldnt exactly be encouraging him to see his sons.
I think the reason he wont have them to his home is because then he wouldnt be free to phone and text MOW as he has to take her calls when it is safe for MOW to contact him(obviiously when her BS is not around)