I hope that you can find more time than the letter has stated. I know it is hard, but you have to find somewhere that you can afford so as not to rely on your ex. He has proven that he doesn't have your best interest in his mind.
Do you have some kind of documentation that shows H was supposed to have been making the payments on the house? If so, I suggest you talk to your attorney about that. (Of course I am thinking lawsuit on this one.)
I can understand that your H might be petty and vindictive and try to hurt you, but however juvenile that behavior might be, it pales in comparison to the idea of not considering his children and how he is hurting them by his behavior.
I'm trying to get through the holiday in one piece of mind. LOL However, once the kids leave tomorrow night to spend the rest of the year with their dad, I have to start cracking down on getting rid of stuff and finding a place to live. sigh nothing is panning out for me right now. I received word from the Autism organization that "even though (I) am deserving of help, (my) situation doesn't warrant financial assistance". Oh well, I sort of expected to not get it.
Anyway, I don't know what will happen if I can't find a place (I know, think positive thoughts). I am going to rent a dumpster so that I can toss fifteen years' worth of marriage into it. LOL
Thanks for checking on me. Appreciate the thoughts.
Merry Christmas and hope you all have a wonderful holiday season.
Make the money off what the ex left behind. Your new place will be great. You will make it home with a lot of elbow work and tears of joy, you will smile and say look what I did. I can just see us now. We'll be doing the new Loew's commercial, "I did that and that..."