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Bad news

December 15 2008 at 12:08 PM
DH  (Login DesperateHousewife72)
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Well, Saturday I received a notice to call this company about the eviction process. I called and have until Jan. 12 to be out. sad.gif No luck in finding a new place to live though.sad.gif Need a miracle.

 
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Anonymous
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Re: Bad news

December 15 2008, 12:20 PM 

Oh DH....I am so sorry!!!!

No rentals you can afford at all? I can't believe that! sad.gif

I'm so sorry sweetie...wish there was something I could do to help you out!!

Know I'm thinking and praying for you.



Denise


 
 
Ami
(Login Amistandingstill)
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Re: Bad news

December 16 2008, 9:50 AM 

DH,

Jan 12 seems odd to me. Rentals run on a month to month bases. If you are notified in Dec. then you automatically should have till the end of January.

What is the reason for the eviction?

Did you get your day in court?

Do you have a lease?

I am so sorry you are dealing with this, but going to court may buy you a bit more time.

Ami


 
 
DH
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Bad news

December 16 2008, 2:48 PM 

The reason for the eviction is due to foreclosure. My ex didn't make payments on the mortgage all last year. So, the house got sold and I have to vacate.

I haven't gone to court yet, don't know if ex will drag me there. So, here's hoping he was just blowing steam.

DH

 
 
Ami
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Re: Bad news

December 18 2008, 8:07 AM 

DH,

I hope that you can find more time than the letter has stated. I know it is hard, but you have to find somewhere that you can afford so as not to rely on your ex. He has proven that he doesn't have your best interest in his mind.

Ami


 
 
Anonymous
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Re: Bad news

December 18 2008, 11:44 PM 

DH,

Just sending you big hugs..

Can you call a lawyer to help you keep the house until you find a new place... read someplace or heard that you cannot evict someone in the winter time especially with children..

((((hugs))))

Pat

"Time is precious, but truth is more precious than time."

 
 


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news

December 19 2008, 8:01 AM 

DH,

Do you have some kind of documentation that shows H was supposed to have been making the payments on the house? If so, I suggest you talk to your attorney about that. (Of course I am thinking lawsuit on this one.)

I can understand that your H might be petty and vindictive and try to hurt you, but however juvenile that behavior might be, it pales in comparison to the idea of not considering his children and how he is hurting them by his behavior.

Huge fairy hugs,

ff

 
 


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Re: Bad news

December 19 2008, 10:13 PM 

Hello DH...I am so sorry for everything you are going through. I am praying you find your miracle!

((((HUGS))))

~ CAL
"You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection" ~ Buddha

 
 

fairyfriend
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bad news

December 24 2008, 9:59 AM 

Bumping this up.

DH, how are you? You are in my thoughts.

Gentle fairy hugs,

fairyfriend

 
 


(Login TomcatPZ)
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re:bad news

December 24 2008, 12:50 PM 

DH:

I was glad to see FF checked in on you too, for you have been on my heart and in my prayers.
Please let us know how you're doing. I wish you the very best from the bottom of my heart.

God Bless

TC

 
 
DH
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Just checking in

December 24 2008, 1:51 PM 

Thanks FF and TC.

I'm trying to get through the holiday in one piece of mind. LOL However, once the kids leave tomorrow night to spend the rest of the year with their dad, I have to start cracking down on getting rid of stuff and finding a place to live. sigh nothing is panning out for me right now. I received word from the Autism organization that "even though (I) am deserving of help, (my) situation doesn't warrant financial assistance". Oh well, I sort of expected to not get it.

Anyway, I don't know what will happen if I can't find a place (I know, think positive thoughts). I am going to rent a dumpster so that I can toss fifteen years' worth of marriage into it. LOL

Thanks for checking on me. Appreciate the thoughts. happy.gif

Merry Christmas and hope you all have a wonderful holiday season.

DH

 
 

(Login Lucille2)
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sell the stuff...

December 29 2008, 2:24 AM 

Make the money off what the ex left behind. Your new place will be great. You will make it home with a lot of elbow work and tears of joy, you will smile and say look what I did. I can just see us now. We'll be doing the new Loew's commercial, "I did that and that..."
Lucille

 
 
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