An unacceptable post is a post that contains:</P>
1) a personal attack, deliberately offensive or hurtful remark, flame, sarcasm, sexual harassment especially in posts directed towards a wayward spouse on the Open Board</P>
2) a description one’s own ongoing infidelity; many other web sites are available for this purpose. Discussion of a partner’s ongoing infidelity is welcome.</P>
3) a description of one's own previous infidelity if it is posted to the DISCOVERY RECOVERY FORUM, the FURTHER RECOVERY FORUM, or the related chat room. </P>
4) preaching, evangelizing, or lengthy quotations from scripture (although we welcome posts about how faiths of all kinds have influenced your personal recovery). </P>
5) solicitations for business or interviews from forum members.</P>