I discovered a card from the OW in his truck. I read it, then when he saw me reading it I tossed it. He felt bad and said he didn't know it was in there. Said it was from a while back. Whatever. LIES, ALL LIES! Once he left I burned it. She was 20 and in College, she said she loved him and how she saw her past and future with him. Yea whatever, how do you see a future with a married man with THREE kids??? How naive.

Shame you didn't burn the truck too. Only kidding. I wonder how they think up the lies so quickly and so (un) convincingly? It reminds me of when my H was seeing his lover, who also had another boyfriend and was also having casual sex with her boss (none of which my H knew at the time - but boy! did I enjoy telling him!!) anyway, she had a child, by yet another unknown man, and we haven't got kids, and when my H left me for her, he said one of the reasons he was leaving was because he wanted kids - a great time to inform me of this, when I was 44!! Anyway, one day, he came home with child's sick all over the back of his t shirt, and as soon as he walked in the door, he said 'you'll have to excuse the state of my t shirt, but I sat in a seat at the bus station and didn't realise there was sick all over it. Ummmmm. Why would he be at a bus station when he has a car? Why would he feel the need to tell me this before he even said hello, and I felt like saying 'hello!! real world calling - I know why you have child sick on your t shirt, you've been with her and her child' but I said nothing at put it in the washing machine.
Should have told him to go and sue the bus station!!!