Hello Everyone,

Jean and Pat told me about this board over here so I thought I would check it out. I recognize many of my friends from The Healing Heart forums....HI GUYS!!!

Thanks for listening.
Carol~

Carol,

At 9 months you're at the beginning of the beginning and I'm glad that you're given a chance to begin to sort things out.

Some of us don't get a chance.

Some do and stay.

Some do and leave.

I sorted things out after 4 years. I finished this business in year 5, and now in year 6 I'm trying to live with it.

Hey Carol

I've been keeping track of a few of your posts because I was wondering how you were doing. I know you weren't getting as much cooperation from your H at first so I'm happy to hear that you are both in counseling and he is trying to make things work now too :>)

Charlie :>)

CArol,
Hi glad you found your way via the link I sent you. Over here I am JeanUK as there is another Jean, Jean150 who is also a very nice lady.
Sorry I have not email of late my main computer crashed and have had to make do with the laptop, not easy to get online when daughter wants to play sims2! The big machine should be re built tomorrow - I had to go buy new windows software as H decided to take the XP discs with him, he has no computer, but well hell, go figure! So 80 quid later I should have it all rebuilt tomorrow.
Glad you made it here, I like it here, very much.
Jean UK

Hi Carol! I'm brand new here but your news is fantastic. Good luck to you and hopefully one day I can join you over there on the side of optimism and hope.

Mac

I may be an optimist at the moment, lol. I have my days. There have been two things that have been crucial to my survival thus far. 1) The great people on the boards (my support system and 2) reading! I have done lots and lots of reading. I believe that knowledge is power. This has given me inner strength. I am not sure if my marriage will be saved, but I now have that strength to try.

Carol~

I am encouraged to think I may be on the path you are on. I found this place and I too am reading a ton.