I have made my mine up that today is just another day! It is the day of the first and last intercourse my H had with the OW , yes there were other encounters before this date but not intercourse.Anyway i was afraid of how i would feel but i read Chris's post on the other forum and realzied this is just another day. I have been through the worse , at least i hope so. So don't dwell on this day. Look at the bright side of this day it was the LAST time he ever was with her!!
I will have bad days and good days, i know that will be that way for awhile.But my H is really trying to make up for how much he has hurt me.
All i ask for is to wake up one day and have a normal day, a day i don't think about the bad things just the good,a day i can look at my H with love again.He does mean the world to me.
I can't began to thank everyone here enough for your support,your caring , and your advice. It has been a comfort for me in ways you can't imagine!!!Thanks!!!
Kathy

You go girl!

Here is to the day when you don't think about it all.

Jay

Kathy,

I read your post about this being a hellish week for you and started to think about my D-day. I know it was in March, 2002, but beyond that, I got nothin'! I can't remember the date. It's been four years for me so I've been at this awhile, but I just wanted to tell you that there will come a day when you WON'T remember!

Who ever thought NORMAL would be something to strive for?! I know the first night I slept straight through after my H left in 2004, I CRIED. I was over-joyed. That was one small step, but a very important one for me.

It's onward and upward in your healing!

Monica

This is your life. Are you who you want to be? ~ Switchfoot

There are only two reasons why I still remember my exact D-Day...

1. I'm here on the boards, so I do some thinking and writing about D-Days, affairs, recovery, etc.

2. My D-Day corresponds with a very important day in American History: December 7.

Pearl Harbor Day. How fitting...
Cory

You are not a human being having a spiritual experience, but a spiritual being having a human experience.