I was wondering if it is just me, but it seems like everytime someone mentions their D-day it is around the fourth of July. Mine was July 3rd so maybe I am just crazy. I read two stories today one was July 4th the other was July 2nd but I have noticed this in the past has anyone else noticed this. Anyway I was just wondering.

Nope. Valentine's Day.

x

D-day #1 June 15, 2004
D-day #2 August 7, 2006

~ CAL
"You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection" ~ Buddha

May 15, 1998

And as you walk you make your path Kat

Nope, mine was December 7, 1998

I nominate mine as the most "fitting"... Pearl Harbor Day...

Cory

"Do nothing which is of no use." Miyamoto Musashi

Nope, mine was just 2 weeks ago - March 10.

That is so strange it must all be in my head but I could have sworn that about every other story had a July 4th D-Day. Thanks

March 15 (1999).

Chris.

Et tu Brutus? March 15th is about as fitting as Dec 7th

Jordan

Mine was May 9, Mother's Day. I remember that I noticed that a lot of d-day were on or near special days, whether they be holidays or other special occasions like birthdays and anniversaries.

D day 1, december 28th 2006

D day 2, march 20th 2007

The real irony is that's the same day I asked her to marry me, Jordan. Beware the Ides of March, indeed.

Chris.

ps. The day was just ahead of her birthday. I agree with Rosie...many of the dates are significant in the lives of either the BS or the WS or both.

I met my first H that day - March 15.... ! and we did not beware !!

And as you walk you make your path Kat

Dec 11th

DDay was August 18th

Jordan

July 3. I went home to surprise him for the 4th. I got the surprise!

My d-days were Feb. 18 (4 days after our anniversary) and Oct. 5 (his birthday).

Hmmmmm... in my case, I'd say there is definitely something to the "special day" theory!

Monica

My yesterdays are all boxed up - and neatly put away.

JULY 1, 2005---Just 3 days before our 30th anniversary which happens to be on the 4th of July!

January 24, 2007

August 26, 2002 two days before my B-day. Some birthday present!

Charlie

mmm d day dates

mine was in july but 3 yrs or so down the track i cannot remember the actual date - maybe that it is good thing, but yep it was july!

the second d day was december, not sure how that fits in

take care
kath

G'day, mate!!   Nice to see you again.  How goes it down your way?

D'dates?  Wow, there were so many.  A big one in September 1999 three weeks before my daughter was born.  Another big one in May 2002.  Many other little ones.

Jean

I don't recall the exact date; however, I have it written down. I do know it was very early March. And the first physical affair happened on Valentines day.

I really don't want to recall the exact date. It is not like it is something to celebrate each year like a birthday, anniversary, etc. I would like to hear why you all think the "date" is burned into your memories.

Wes

hi jean, i love your pic, my latest, go to the healing heart network54 site and read (ironically) the thread on 3 good things that have happened hahahahhaha


hugs girl, i know you need them, well you dont really but i am sure they might help

cheers
kath

Wes, everyone remembers life-altering events like our kids' birthdays and our wedding days. D-day is a life-altering day, too.

Chris.

Mine was March 13, 2007

I also found some suggestive emails today from hubby to another woman (totally by accident I might add, honestly), which he claims he never acted on. So I guess, today could be another d-day?

Desiree

We often don't get the truth when we first find out about our spouses or SO's A (affair). It often trickles out for a long time afterwards. Don't believe a whole bunch initially. I'm not trying to be negative, only giving you some honesty that you might be lacking from your WS (wandering spouse) at the moment.

I'm sorry you've had to join the club that no wants to join but you've found a great support group.

Charlie

March 23, 1998 Two weeks after my H's birthday

Hi Lee.... good to see you my friend chatted with the Roo a couple of days ago... she is back on line on AOL !!

And as you walk you make your path Kat

Nope Sept 16

Close July 14th.

Is D date divorce date or discovery date?

If Discovery date, two nights ago which is sort of after mother's day.

It's our abbreviation for discovery date.

Chris.

May 15 2007

April 10 2007

May 4, 2007 (day before our son's 14th birthday)