Well I went to the OM's little music show Tuesday night. He comes up and says, "hey don't I know you?" I answered, "isn't that chick you are hitting on, a little too fat for you?" He goes, "no, she is just some chick from myspace". I said, "well my wife was a little too fat for you." His eyes got as big as saucers. He asked what I wanted, I told him he knew what I wanted. He walked away and started talking to the gal he was talking to. I sat there and waited. He walks her to her car and comes back in and says he is leaving. So I follow him outside, even holding the door as he rolls out a speaker. I bait the shit out of the prick trying to get him to hit me first, even told him that someone keyed his truck. He won't do it, I said kick my ass and no cops, if I kick your's no cops. After and hour of standing in his way, I get tired of listening to his whining and crying how he was raped by my wife. He gets in his truck and tears outta there.

Next day the cops call me and say to leave him alone, I knew the prick would have me arrested if I beat the shit outta him. He called the cops just because I scared him. Since this is happening in multiple venues, it is going to be hard for him to do anything to me. Cop said if I keep this up I could lose my job. Well the OM knows what will happen if I lose my job, because I promised to him what would happen. Let's see what happens next.

Jordan

Children make great life jackets.

J, you have seemed to be doing much better (up to now).

What's up? Off the meds?

Chris.

Jordan

If you and Cyn are really finished and I'm assuming you are because you're dating, why are you trying to ruin the rest of your life too? Why are you letting this A define who you are? Why don't you pull it together and make your life better than it was before? I'm not with my ex anymore and am happier than ever, I'm certain that you can do it too if you want it badly enough.

Charlie

I am not doing better, I half hope I do lose my job. Then he will get his.

Cyn didn't post this, I did. Sorry, I didn't see til just now it was logged in under her account.

Jordan

Jordon your post saddens me....you are not the only one who has ever been betrayed we were and are on these boards because of a betrayel...you have lost much no doubt, but so have most of us or all of us....I have four children my family was split due to divorce two kids with me two with ex and OW(that about killed me)I lost a beautiful home, land, I love the outdoors the wildlife, nature all was taken from me and OW has it all...but what she doesn't have is a purity within her all what she took from me is not worth me going to jail for, not worth me doing her harm back then ...right now because I did not take revenge out on her my life is GREAT fullfilled more so then I can say about ex and OW....so please Jordon please back off OM he is not worth your children, your job, your life.....it seems you can not live with your wife due to the fact it will continue to haunt you.....free yourself of all this pain by seeking counseling and moving on to a brighter future a healthier future with your kids in it, not filling your heart, soul and mind with hatred that ends you in prison.....OM IS NOT WORTH IT!! best revenge is a happy life without them in it....look at your kids faces then look at your kids faces after they hear that you have killed a man....sigh do you want your kids to go have to go through that too!! think about your kids please for your kids!!!
I wish you the best Jordon I truly do....get some help please, and I think you should get out of your marriage and move on....there is life after being betrayed and divorced.....I have been there have done that...d-day 1999 divorced 2003...and now life is GOOD...and I am so happy that I did not let EX or OW map my future for me

please Jordon seek some help ...do it for your kids future!!!

hugs
Jo