Well to make a very long story short.My husband for the last year has been acting totally different in every way.It first started by a girl calling my work wondering where my husband was at? I told her I wouldn't know and he was supposed to meet her for coffee.Well then i asked her who she was and she said i didnt know about her and told her no and she said he didnt tell you about me and i replied no.Then i asked her who this was and she hung up.Then on our lifes have been turned upside down i know mine has. When i would leave for work there would be cars sitting down my rode now mind you i live in the country so if your sitting on the side of the road its pretty noticeable.Of course there would be girls sitting in these cars.First it was someone was trying to set him up..Was his response..So i finally came right out and asked him if he was cheating and he said no..He would never do that.Well intuition told me hee was lying..There were numerous other things started to go on that pretty much told me he was..and still is..Then i started being followed to work, which i found out who that was a security place that is here hes friends with the owner.Well its been a year now and hes still acting peculiar and he keeps saying hes not cheating..But money missing out of our account tells me somthing else..Theres so much to mention i cant do all of it. Then one night he told me that I have no idea who im messing with i told him im not the one messing around so who are you messing around with? His reply as usual was no one but your going to get yourself killed if you dont watch it.That pretty much told me he is messing around with someone.So anyway im still here cause i had my stuff packed to move out twice now and he begged me and cried for me not to leave..So i thought alright ill give it another chance.So im still here he tells me every night that he loves me more than anything, but i dont want to be made a fool out of. Efvery night before he gets off work ive got cars driving by and turning around to see if im home then when he comes home they stop..I can usually tell when shes going to go see him cause they start driving by..Pretty obvious..So Im not sure what to do at this point.I was told by a friend of mine that he was seeing one of these rich girls that there parents are paying alot of money out to make sure he doesnt caught by me cause he went and told them i was crazy and would kill both of them..Well number 1 i do not promote violence at all.So thats his story to cover his own actions cause we livein a town thats pretty small.Just wish someone would tell me the truth.Ive tried everything to catch him and hes right i cant catch him.He warned me that i would never catch him..So theres my story.I know i should just leave but i do live him and im the type of person i need to find out myself to be sure.Just dont understand why honesty is so hard...
At the very least, this is a lot of crazy making. If being married to him is like this after just one year then what is it going to be like at five years, ten years etc? Normal marriages with regular people don't have to worry about cars sitting along the side of the road watching your every move. Supportive husbands or wives don't put their spouses in danger. In fact, it is just the opposite, they help protect them from danger. Is this the way you want to live?
He threatened you and he is acting all weird. You are being followed. There is obviously something going on that isn't right. People are sitting outside your home. I would feel extremely unsafe.
Well thanks for your guys input im not sure of what to do..He tells me hes not seeing anyone. But not to mislead you guys we've been together for about 10 years.Married only 3 of the 10. He swares hes not seeing anyone but his actions tells me different.First it was someones setting him up, then it was i did something to someone, then i made it all up. Yea for one thing im not one to make anything up, no one wants to think there spouse is cheating on them..I don't know about anyone else but thats the last thing i wanted to think..Its really funny cause i drive down the street and girls will take there hand and cover there face, ok well dont know about you guys but if your not guilty of anything than why cover your face? I know he met alot of young rich girls here awhile back, and some of them have been around my house, then his stepson told me his dad was seeing his mom. So only thing i have to go on is rumors..So if any of lyou have any advice feel free to email me. kkm48@hotmail.com sometimes its nice to talk to someone whos been through this.I tried to leave 2x's and he sat thee and balled and said he wasn't doing anything wrong and begged me not to leave..So I tried to trust and believe him but theres definitely something going on... Thanks km
