The FURTHER board is for betrayed spouses who are more than one year out from discovery.
For more details of site management policies, go to the ANNOUNCEMENTS AND POLICY link on the home page.
This is not a punitive or judgemental move. We try to keep DISCOVERY and FURTHER for those who are dealing with affairs of their partner only. That doesn't rule out posting by a betrayed spouse who has had affairs in the past, but this space is supposed to be a "safe" place for those who have been betrayed and any mention of one's own past affairs is better discussed on the OPEN board.