I dont know where to start except that after seven years she has cheated on me an I am lost. I have asked her to stop texting me an callng but she wont. Deep inside i dont want her to cause I guess I am holding on but i know I need to move on I cant even look at her. Please can someone tell me what to do with all these emotions. That Sick feeling that wont go away. The details isnt important at this point. I guess I just need someone to talk to.

Paul I am so sorry that you are going thru this...

You mentioned 7 yrs... is that married 7 yrs. or relationship started or 7 yrs since she cheated before.

The common answer is to take care of yourself, exercise, and focus on getting you back to a more stable mind frame.

The Affair books recommend that you NOT make any decision for a few months, just concentrate on healing yourself.

There are wonderful people on this board that can help you thru the next stages in healing. Please take advantage of their help

Post often that helps to relieve the pain of infidelity...releases the poisons that seem to build up in our minds.

Pat




"Time is precious, but truth is more precious than time."

Paul, My prayers are with you. Hang in there. Crash.