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April 2 2007 at 8:42 AM
Jean150  (Login Jean150)

Poem: "Family Reunion" by Jeredith Merrin from Bat Ode.

Family Reunion

The divorced mother and her divorcing
daughter. The about-to-be ex-son-in-law
and the ex-husband's adopted son.
The divorcing daughter's child, who is

the step-nephew of the ex-husband's
adopted son. Everyone cordial:
the ex-husband's second wife
friendly to the first wife, warm

to the divorcing daughter's child's
great-grandmother, who was herself
long ago divorced. Everyone
grown used to the idea of divorce

Almost everyone has separated
from the landscape of childhood.
Collections of people in cities
are divorced from clean air and stars.

Toddlers in day care are parted
from working parents, schoolchildren
from the assumption of unbloodied
daylong safety. Old people die apart

from all they've gathered over time,
and in strange beds. Adults
grow estranged from a God
evidently divorced from history;

most are cut off from their own
histories, each of which waits
like a child left at day care.
What if you turned back for a moment

and put your arms around yours?
Yes, you might be late for work;
no, your history doesn't smell sweet
like a toddler's head. But look

at those small round wrists,
that short-legged, comical walk.
Caress your history—who else will?
Promise to come back later.

Pay attention when it asks you
simple questions: Where are we going?
Is it scary? What happened? Can
I have more now? Who is that?

Jean

 
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April 2 2007, 9:06 PM 

So I found this poem today on NPR's Writer's Almanac.  Thought it was interesting.

Jean


 
 
Quinn
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April 7 2007, 2:58 PM 

I liked it too. It's a little bleak perhaps. But I like bleak.

 
 
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Re: integration

April 7 2007, 7:11 PM 

"A people without history
Is not redeemed from time, for history is a pattern
Of timeless moments."

T.S. Eliot, Little Gidding V, Four Quartets, 1943

 
 

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April 8 2007, 1:21 PM 

Hi Q!  You thought it was bleak?  I didn't. 

Jean

 


 
 
Quinn
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caressing my history

May 2 2007, 10:50 PM 

>>Hi Q! You thought it was bleak? I didn't<<

Just a little, maybe. But then

>>most are cut off from their own
histories<<

is redeemed by

>>Caress your history—who else will?<<

... so I guess it ends well and ... all's well that ends well.

 
 
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