H told me yesterday that a woman that works at a convenience store nearby flirted with him...Said she still seemed interested after he mentioned that he was married....
I am grateful that he came right home and shared this with me...He said he had to because that's how temptation can get started...He undertood that the secrecy is how it starts....
I am glad that he told me, but am still nervous that someone was flirting with him even after he state dhe was married, but why should that surprise me? After all, OW knew he was married....I guess we have to accept that there will always be low-lifes out there...
On the positive, the other night, (before the woman flirted with him) H said he was looking across the dinner table at me, and it hit him how much he has put me through this past year...He said it hit him like a thunderbolt how hard it has been for me...I don't know if that awakening had anything to do with anything we had talked about that day, or if it just came...but I could tell that he meant it, and he has been extra loving since then....
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