On another thread (Various Thoughts ....) you wrote
>>I have actually asked my H for a divorce. I have told him I don't love him any more, don't want to live with him and don't want to be married to him<<
I just wanted to let you know that I'm sorry/glad that it has come to this point. I'm sorry that it looks like your marriage will probably not survive but I'm glad that you seem to have found your clear voice.
Quinn