I am kelwil's wife. some of you may have read her story. I am also here for support, to give support, and to help support her in our time of grief. I am praying this works out and the pain will hopefully ease some for the both of us, I cant take anymore! I do know she loves me very much, but has made some very bad choices in our relationship that has hurt me terribly and caused me not to be able to trust her. I have made an agreement one last time with her to work on this and try to make it work, but have told her I will only try as hard as SHE does, no more one sided relationship here. Its not worth the pain and I deserve better. Jan will be 20 years we have been together, and things have been going wrong for the past 11 or so, I have stood strong, fought and fought, and now I say, enough is enough. This is very hard for me, I know it is for her as well, and will appreciate any support I can get. Thanks for being here, this is a wonderful website and everyone seems so nice and caring.

ready to mend my broken heart, ONE more time!

Howdy Katie,

I just wanted to welcome you. Check out the RESOURCES link at the top of the home page. There is alot of helpful info in there for both of you. Gain as much knowledge as you can.

If you are having trouble sleeping, eating etc...then see a doc. That's very common. There is nothing wrong with asking for help as you both have done by posting here.

Hang in there and be prepared from the rollercoaster ride from hell. There will be lots of ups and downs for a long time.

If you have any questions ask away. Its very common to question everything.

Welcome to the club nobody wanted to join, but you CAN recover from it.

You aren't alone and neither is Kel.

Regards,

Tex

As Tex said there are some very helpful books on the Resources link. It helped me in the beginning to read everything I could get my hands on. My husband wasn't much into reading the books so I highlighted things I thought pertained to us and shared them with him later.

I'm sorry you had to find us Katie, but wanted to welcome you to our site. I hope you and Kelwil will stick around and continue to talk to us.

GT

 

Thanks yall. It sure is a rollercoaster ride. I have read some of the resources, and will continue to do so. I have printed some of the things as well. Thanks again for the support and welcomes.


ready to mend my broken heart, ONE more time!

hi GT n Tex .. th anks for the welcome ... we will continue to read n post ... nothing means more to me now then rebuilding our marriage n being the couple we were always meant to be ... Kel