The day I started this thread, the idea seemed to come from out of the blue. Funny thing is, my W came home from work that day with interesting news.
Recap: W had A with a co-worker. A ended, and both of them continued to work at the same place. She's over him in a big way. I don't think he ever got over her, but he is in a relationship now and his divorce continues to drag on.
What my W told me after work that day was that he got fired due to poor work performance. Gone, after something like 14 years at the company. He had warning signs and chose to ignore them. I'm not sorry to see him go.

Scott