For some strange reason I feel pretty strong today. Don't really know why. Maybe it's the fact that the papers finally came because I've been waiting for this. As we take care of everything the "legal' way maybe this will be the turning point for us to rebuild. Now is my chance to bring up counseling, which is something he refused to do. I really think we need it.

On a lighter side...as we lay in bed last night I looked at him and laughed and said "one of the days I'm going to kick you a** for doing this" and we both laughed a little.

Good for you, Leslie, good for you.

Re. counseling - if you want to go - go for yourself or not you get out of it what you put in - so if he does not want to go and were forced to go he may not get anything out of it ...

And as you walk you make your path Kat