at about 9 p.m. EDT

H2C- Here's to you and NM!!! Make every day for the rest of your lives a celebration of your healing.

TLMM

I second taigalucy's wishes...I hit d-day plus five on July 2nd and know I am in a much better place than I was 5 years ago.

Best wishes,

Dave

Congratulations to both of you -

D-day plus 9 years May 15

And as you walk you make your path Kat

Hmm. This is 2007, so I'm past 8. I've separated, divorced, closed my businesses, sent one son off to boot camp, moved, changed careers (among other changes). In other words, I got a (new) life of my own.

Obladee, oblada, life goes on, hey....

Time and effort are the keys you find while wondering "is this ever going to get better?"

Chris.

Yes, Congrats NM and H2C!!!

I'm also in a better place - without him! LOL

Charlie

D-day + 5 years August 26.

H2C, Good for you two. Hey, how's the new baby of the house?!

Charlie - ME TOO!! My D-day was (I can't remember the exact date!! Yay, me!) March, 2002.

Monica

My yesterdays are all boxed up - and neatly put away.

(I can't remember the exact date!! Yay, me!) March, 2002.

I can remember the date of the legal separation but do not remember the date my first marriage was sanctioned with a divorce ! but that was so long ago.... maybe I do have an excuse LOL

And as you walk you make your path Kat

Thanks Charlie, Kate, TLMM, Mon, and Dave for your well wishes. We made it throughto the 5th year, but still a work in progress. My counselor wanted me to try out being more assertive and tell my H what I want and need from him, instead of him always guessing and trying to read my mind. This new behaviour of mine is an adjustment for us. We were never used to this. The old behaviour of mine I feel was one of the many reasons that led me to make my terrible mistake. So, we are trying to adjust to that. "The new Me". Keep your fingers crossed that we can come to a happy medium.

NM

Shoot, NM, ain't nuthin' "medium" about JoeBobLeroy. How come you're worried about finding "medium"? Maybe you are Zsa Zsa in "Green Acres" and not Granny in "Beverly Hillbillies".

Chris.

Kat I don't remember dday either.......sometime in early december but I can never remember which year.

Congrats H2C and NightMary.



RW

Thanks, RW for your kind words. How's the traveling going?

NM