"Similarly, people who want an extramarital affair can clear the air by being honest with their accomplice and with their partner about their intentions. When an attractive married man invites me to have sex with him, I reply, "Go tell your wife. If it's okay with her it's all right with me." Most of them reply, "If I tell her, she'll kick me out." My answer is, "At least she'll know what you're up to. Then the two of you can make a decision about what to do next."
For example, a married colleague of mine had extra-marital sex without intercourse with another woman while we were attending a convention. He insisted on calling his wife (who was at home taking care of their children) and telling her the details. Naturally she was furious. When I spoke to him a couple of weeks later he reported that they had a huge argument, cleared the air, and decided that she had equal rights to sexual pleasure with other men (and that they would hire a babysitter)."
Huh??? Parts of this article were interesting, but I find it hard to take the advice of someone with this outlook- it doesn't agree with my own.
The good ole (ex) US President said it best I think. I did NOT have sexual relations with that woman or something to that effect. Well I guess to some oral is not sex, and to others it is.
Unfortunately a good portion of our teens today think that oral sex is not "technically" sex. It's just making out. I don't know that we can blame that on Monica and Bill though.
Charlie, I can think of a few ways to have satisfying sex without having intercourse. But I'd blush if I tried to explain them.
