3 monhts ago I found out my husband of 14 years was having an emotional affair with a friend we have known since high school.Not only is this woman a friend she is my husbands best friends wife. The four of us have done so much together she is like an aunt to our children. These are the people who are my childrens god parents.The affair lasted for about 4 months that I can see. I found out the horrifying news on my cell phone bill. They would text and call each other all day. There a a few times they would stay up all night texting each other. Sometimes sending erotic pictures to each other.
I have so much hostility towards not only this woman but also to my husband. I send her a letter about my felings in all of this and her reply was well I have known him longer then you so I have the right to talk to him how ever I want to.According to her I have done bad things to her in the past ( havent figured out what it is that I have done to her yet)so she feels justified in doing what she has done. Not only has my marriage fallen apart but we have lost long time friends because of stupidity.I feel like a damn fool for not seeing it sooner. She and her family had moved an hour away and we didnt much of them for a little while. Then all of a sudden she was everywhere. My sons football games, my birthday party, everywhere we had plans to go she was going to be there my by husbands invite. I guess hindsite is 20/20 but I feel like an idiot for not seeing this coming. Now my anger and resentment is eating away at me. I want to know if she is as misserable as I am.I cant seem to not think about her and her family. its slowly killing me.