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Kathy (no login)
Posted Oct 9, 2003 12:46 AM
Strange, I dont remember mentioning your name! Your inexplicable discomfort led me to give up asking you fairly soon. I do not see how you asking her husband for their mailing address ( which I did not ask for to help her preserve her privacy)to help her aquire one of her hearts desires is reproachable. I thought it more appropriate for Gary's camp to deal directly with Scott,since it seemed to be taking an extraordinarily long time for it all to come together, partially my fault, since I am not on line everyday, I'm sure.
Nice vocabulary,by the way, but you do tend to come across fairly cold. Is that what you intend?
Why are you so afraid to let anyone know who you are if it is you legal business identity? An anonymous business name? Riiight! Now you are asking me to believe the unbelievable.
By the way, Stephanie has posted info on her condition on the internet, so there goes that selfrighteous indignation right down the old plumbing!
What I really dont understand is, if you really wanted to do something for her, why didn't you just do it?
Clearly,we do not understand each others mindsets, nor do we need to. What matters is that it means alot to
Steph. Dont punish her for my mistakes or assume she would consider it an invasion for someone in Gary's camp to help her have something that she would cherish.
You can absolutely trust Scott and Steph. Neither Scott nor She will ever divulge your identity if you ask them not to. That is one of the reasons she is so well loved, her integrity,goodness and honesty.
Honestly, you've resisted from the start. Why say anything if you did not truely want to do something?
Here's what happened:
There was someone else who conviced me that he was legitimate and HE did not follow through. You basically said you didnt want to be bothered, since you were convinced for whatever reason it was intrusive. So I stopped asking. This other person, acted as though he were following through and did not!!!!!If it makes you feel any better, basically breaking my heart for her.
Unless you are the same person,( which unfortuantely sounds fairly likely, because of your attitude and language usage), you have no reason to assume I meant you.
If I am wrong, I appologize. I sincerely HOPE I'm wrong. I pray I'm wrong. I dont like being toyed with when I'm trying to do something good.
But we are no closer to the goal. Getting Steph something she can cherish. Sans the negative drama please! Pardon the pun! God, drama is for books, movies and plays, not my life. I was hoping this would go off a little easier and leave everyone feeling happy and joyful. Welcome to the real world, Kathy. I dont want to be cynical, I dont believe in it.
All it requires on your part is one phone call to Scott for the address and aquiring the photo/note from Gary and mailing it off. Is that too much to ask? She does in fact face more chemo at the very least, perhaps more surgery and radiation as well down the road.
For Gods sake, please, help her out if you can. Not for me, for her. What else can anyone say?
You can hate me all ya like, I am an annoying person quite often ,to be sure, but she is as good as I am annoying and she adores Gary, and it would, as you say ease her suffering. Your choice.
If you are determined to do good, Just DO It! I will thank you, as will all of her other on line Gary friends (and there are MANY) with all of our hearts, whether WE know who you are or not.
Stephanies friend,
Kathy |
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