Maybe Vince, maybe.
I do feel being able to ground myself is the thing for me to do.
I hate the things I say so easily at times, the judegments I make, the 'predicatability' of my reactions, still it don't always stop me.
So I TRY to think before I speak, say nothing rather than anything. BUT I can and do (

) go Off On One at times.
Yeah, my mum was and is very loving, bus she sure bears the scars of a tough life herself. I see in her real hardness at times, set ways, immovability. I don't understand, and then, sometimes, huhu, a little bit of her comes out of me.....

We are all of 1 Spirit
and
1 Spirit is The All That Is!