I understand totally what your saying here.
I did homeschool Cody, although did not homeschool my two girls. But Cody was an outgoing kid with everybody young and old. Maybe with the old because we are old, and was when we got him to begin with.
Although not sure about that. Except people were astounded at how easily he could sit down and talk with somebody that was older even when he was a youngster, just like most kids do with one another. So like I say, maybe it was many of her friends were ancient too, don't know.
It is very difficult when we do have problems with our kids though. As they are very precious. And we want the very best for them always too.
Only by the grace of God go I,
"If any man will do his will, he shall know of the doctrine, whether it be of God or whether I speak of myself.
He that speaketh of himself seeketh his own glory: but he that seeketh his glory that sent him, the same is true, and no unrighteousness is IN him." John 7:17-18