Re: ancora...

Maybe it's better that I write in English ...
I have not received your message as an accusation against me! I agree with you, on the whole line!
It's something unbearable bring the weight of a claim perfection. It seemed, and seems even today, that people wish that Gaby was perfect! Gaby is not perfect, she has never been and never will be, she never wanted to be perfect, even if there is someone who sees her as such and puts her on a pedestal. She's a human being, like all of us, with strengths and weaknesses, and for a human being, in the long run, is very uncomfortable being on a pedestal.
I agree with you. She has left the professional tennis because she could not bear all the more pressure, the attention, claims by the press, by the fans, perhaps even by the bulky parents and brother. I remember the comments that were often about her: why doesn't she smile more? why doesn't she talk more? why is she so shy? why is she so reserved? Why isn't she the number one? why doesn't she win more? Now people say: why hasn't she a boyfriend? why isn't she yet married? why hasn't she children? does she like men or women? why doesn't she play tennis more often, as her former colleagues? etc. etc. etc.
You are absolutely right! E CHE PALLE!!!!! How can I translate "E CHE PALLE"?
CHE PALLE...always be the perfect daughter, CHE PALLE...always be the perfect sister, CHE PALLE...always be beautiful and good, CHE PALLE...always be the successful tennis player rich and famous, CHE PALLE...always be the focus of other's speeches!
That this woman living her life as she wishes, according to her wishes!