TR, I would like to reply. I also agree that their are people who take this liberty aspect as well as the legal aspect to far either way.
I can only speak for myself, but I feel that without being personally involved with a living relationship with Jesus I totally lose the balance between the two.
In some areas of my life I tend to be super legalistic not about so much about material things but about attitudes. I tend to think I have to do everything for everyone else, constantly sacrificing my needs and desires to help others. I judge others who do not take the time to help the sick, or the hurting and write them off. Often not actually having a caring heart toward the individuals I am serving. I build up resentment and become overwhelmed and irritated with my family. Giving and serving the less fortunate, and the hurting becomes my idol, and the work I do counts for nothing because God is not in it, and I am not the person that God is going to use to minister to these folks....it becomes about me. How come when I am steeped in legalism in a certain area of my life I get all consumed with what are others are thinking of me????
In other areas such as cussing and swearing I tend to get very liberal not caring how my actions effect others or what they think about my actions...and why is it that during these times I think muttering "Oh God forgive me covers it all"...
If I don't stay plugged into the Spirit regularly I very quickly lose the balance that is intended for me and I begin to judge other Christians around me and compare myself to them instead of being obedient to what the still small voice requires of me. It is amazing how quickly I lose the balance and focus God has intended for me personally.
If I find myself totally uncaring and harsh about something or consumed with what others think in another aspect of my life those are red flags for me to check the Spirit-o-meter.
We aren't born corporately and we will not die corporately...it is a solitary journey we take with God from here to eternity. No man knows our path better then He does. I know that while I respect and care for others and their opinions and ideas, the relationship I have with Him is all that matters. He knows the balance for my life that will allow me to be the person He created me to be.
As for following doctrine, I do not believe we are asked to follow doctrine for doctrines sake. It is not through works that we are saved but through Him.
Here is my practical explanation of this in my life.
I do not wear a covering or a certain style of dress to be a Christian witness. I don't understand how this has anything to do with Him, the focus is on me and the "strange" clothes.
I dress in clothes that suit my body type and the ones that usually hang on the sale rack...I don't give to much thought to them actually. I do understand that in order to be a witness for Him I must be filled with the Holy Spirit. If my words or deeds touched someone and helped them out, it is about Him, not about me and my doctrine about dress that was the witness.
God is big enough He can use me dressed however I am.
I don't follow doctrine I do not understand. If God reveals something He wants me to do or not to do I understand very well why, and the implications it has on my life. If I am disobedient, I also know the consequences that will follow...I'm not talking about fear being expelled or going to hell, I'm talking about things that hinder happiness my life, either physically or spiritually.
I just don't understand how anyone can follow all the rules written or implied, not understanding them and stay passionate about their Jesus. He is not a formula or degree to be learned.
I also accept that we are all progressing and there are many more truths He wants to reveal to me, and some of the so called doctrines that seemed ridiculous in the past now make a lot more sense to me. In fact I even practice them, not for doctrines sake but because I know they improve the quality of my Christian life. ( personal debts )
TR, I believe the same is true for others. I trust God to lead you in the path that He has chosen for you...and I'm pretty sure that everyones journey will look slightly different then mine, but I have no doubt that they will all bare forth fruit.
May each one of us learn to walk in obedience hearing His voice coaching us down the path that is ours alone.
BTW, Tr, when you see me helping Granny paint her garage doors, baking cookies for the lodge, cussing like a sailor under my breath, go ahead....reprove me I need it!
Edited to add the doctrine speech...