i lost my dad very suddenly 2 years ago. people tell me that time is a great healer but its getting worse instead of better. im really angry with him for leaving me and my mum. he was only 50. will it ever get better????

Hi, i know what you are going through, i lost my Dad 8months ago and i am struggling to come to terms with it all - yes they say time is a great healer but it will take a while - my Mum is also ill with Alzheimers so i am greiving for 2 and it not easy...........i hope things get better for you, my thoughts are with you.

Im sorry to hear that it is still hard for you to come to terms with the loss of your dad. I lost my dad in Feb this year to Pancreatic cancer, he was 59 years old. He first had a major stroke and then he was dignosed with cancer so his chances of fighting it were shattered, It was heartbreaking seeing him struggle to keep his pride when he had to rely on the nurses to do everything for him. He died within three weeks of being diagnosed. I still cant believe it!

Even though my dad isnt here in person to help me through the worst time of my life I take solace in thinking that he would want me to be happy and make the most out of my life and to not give up.

Hating your dad will not bring him back, it will just make your life and your mums life harder. As you can see from this website there are loads of people just like you and me, that proves that it is just part of life, things like this happen all the time and your not alone, its no ones fault its just life, its not nice but theres nothing we can do but get on with our own lives, isnt that what they would want, your dad wouldnt want you to give up would he?

I really hope you find a way to move forward. I think going on this website is a good start!

Please feel free to email me at any time.

i know how u feel.my dad died 4th dec 2006
came out of nowhere.he 60.feel cheated.angry.

i lost my dad 4th dec 2006 i know exactly how u feel cheated and hurting.hope in time u will feel better.he will alweays b with u.remember all t good times u shared and how lucky u were 2 have him.take care of your mum.x

I too have lost my dad, just over 9 months ago. It was very sudden, I know how you feel.

We were so close, I feel cheated every single day. I feel like I've lost my right arm, it hurts so much. Nobody I know really understands, I suppose you can't until it happens to you.

Logging onto this site proves you are not alone, you're amongst others who are experiencing the same agony.