i HATE that saying. i'm finding it harder not to hate the people that say it to me!
every part of me is hurting,screaming ...lost
lost my big brother now my dad dont know where to turn...... feels like i';m going to cry forever

Hi, just read your message. It is the toughest thing any one person has to go through. I ve just lost my partner (34)Cancer. Its been hell. The next day , can be worse than the last, so time does not always help.The tears just keep on going to a ridiculous point. All I can offer to say is - And its the only thing that gets me through a day - "we have no choice in this, its beyond our control. its riding the storm - face on. Allowing yourself to be both strong and week.

I understand what you mean. People keep telling me 'time is the best healer'. Frankly speaking, its a load of rubbish. I feel like screaming when anyone says that.
I lost my best friend and my mentor, my Dad ! I have this great big wound inside of me that won't heal. I am crying continuously will do so for the rest of my life !

My mum is only living for me, and vice versa. Dad was the love of her life.

thanks for your messages.