My grandma has died on wednesday evening quite sudden, she was 84. she was
taken to hospital on wednesday morning with severe sickness and pain in stomach. I was with her till late afternoon then had to go to see to my children. She was poorly but i didnt think that a few hours later she would
die. I would never have left her and I regret not being able to say goodbye
or give her a kiss. Why do I feel so bad. My mum her daughter was with her
at the end along with her 86 year old husband (my grandad). I feel so empty and sad I wish I could just have another 5 mins with her to tell her I loved
her so much and that I will miss her. I no she not be suffering now as she
had been ill for a couple ov years with various complaints.

My Grandma- You were so special to me, and I will never forget you. You was
the best. RIP Your Grandaughter - Kathryn

Welcome Kath to this site. Hope you visit and post regularly, I'm sure you'll find lots of support here.

My condolences on the loss of your gran...and I empathise with your wish for five more minutes, as I am sure we all do, I'd give anything to have my dad back, for one day, one afternoon, one hour, one hug....(((((sigh))))

Regards.

J W

So sorry to hear how upset you are over the loss of our grandma. I know from my own experience how we regret not having spent the last hours with someone we loved, but death is not a time tabled event. I'm sure she would have known you were thinking of her, and even getting joy from remembering all the times you had together. Not a lot I can say now, except to hope that you keep in touch with all the friends you will find here. We do help each other, and we can share our feelings honestly and without reserve. We do all cry, but we will all come through the sadness in time. I can tell you that with absolute conviction, having dealt with severe grief in the past. Keep on living and loving and you will be O.K.
Love,
Derry

Hi Kath,

Welcome to the forum and I would like to add my condolences to everyone elses and hope that you find some peace on here where we are all suffering from the loss of someone we loved.

Just talk out your grief on here as we all do. Cry if you need as Derry says, we all do it as we all still have bad days. Keep posting as it will help you in many ways too.

love Lynn. xxx