Hello,

I am new and was responding to Philomena's question but can't seem to tag on.

I lost my Dad very suddenly three and a half years ago, my brother in law and 5 other relatives in the last 2 years.

Even before this I always had an interest in Psychics and Mediums. I have been to see many over the years but have to say that the best one that I have seen is Gordon Smith - The Psychic Barber.
As well as having a fantastic personality he has a real empathy with the work that he does.

Even though I did not get a reading just witnessing the very specific information that other people were receiving was very comforting.

I have had many experiences of smelling my dad's aftershave around me for at least 30 minutes, cigar smoke and seeing and hearing other things too many coincidences not to believe they are around - just never in the way we still long and want for.

I hope this helps.

Louise L

Hi, i had a very similiar experience yesterday, my mum passed in august this year, and we have had no confirmation she is around, yesterday i was at college and broke down, we were actually walking past a shop me and my mum used to visit, afterwards a cat came from nowhere (and i am absolutely petrified of cats), walked straight through everyone else and started to rub itself on my legs, it took around 15 mins but i clicked, said thanks mum, and without looking back, the cat walked in the opposite direction, funny, when we need them most they come, it may be subtle, but it helps. x

Hi Kirsti & Louise L

Its nice to hear you have both experienced something from beyond which helps in our everday lives, my experience happened shortly after my husband Bob passed, I had got into his car for a brief journey to a post box, when I got back in the car the rear view mirror above me had been pulled down so as I could'nt see anythig but black, it then happened AGAIN on the same journey when I was returning home, I got a friend to check it out as I knew it wasnt loose or anything like that, on another occasion I had his pictures go missing for 24 hours, I was the only one in the house the whole time. I was very comforted to think he was with me and watching, sadly I havent noticed anything else, but will keep looking x .
I hope you are both feeling OK today
Lv Phil x

Hi, was your husband a practical joker ?
It's so comforting knowing they are around.
My mum passed in her bed, 5 days after returning from hospital, she had planned everything.
She was bed ridden and told my dad to move her to the bottom of the bed so she would be able to "swing her legs round", hours before her passing, it is amazing.
I hope you are ok xxx

I have heard many times that little white feathers are a 'sign' or a 'visit'. To be honest....there's loads of them around but I do tend to notice them at times when I really think there is a relevance. Two examples that really make me think - first one was my brother had a barbeque at his house for his birthday (which was 3 months after my dad's passing) - we were all there, my dad's six grandkids, etc, the hole my dad left was noticeable - as we were tidying up the patio at the end of the day....I found a single white feather - may be me going crazy, but it gave me such comfort to think that my dad was with us. Second time was in fact today - we bought a new car today and as we were driving it home i was thinking such a shame that I can't get home and phone my dad to tell him about it - just takes the edge off everything doesn't it. Anyway, as I got out of the car, there on the roof was another white feather. This has happened other times as well, but these are the two occasions that stand out.

I've been told that the signs are all around us all the time....it's just that we don't always know what to look for!

Hugs

J W

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Hi all,

I to have heared about the white feathers connection but can't say I have actually seen any myself, I have had a flyer for a medium meeting on 15/10 which I may attend, I just have butterflies in case I am either disappointed or overwhelmed with information which I know to be true, will try to keep an open mind.
My husband Bob was very much a practical joker, he was a fire officer for nearly 27 years and you may know they are renowned for wind ups / practical jokes and having a good sense of humour, it goes with the job I think. Sometimes when something funny happens I do say out loud "I hope you are having a laugh at that one too Bob"

I have been thinking lately is it time to change things in the house, I have 2 chairs which we purchased because Bob was unable to sit comfortably on our existing settee, the spare room was changed so Bob could spend his last few months at home, although the medical equipment/bed has gone I still feel sad when I enter the room and always look in the direction of where his bed was. Not sure what to do as once things are changed they can never be as they were, does that make sense?

I better go before I cry, take care

Phil x