Dear Jenny - just because you are expecting the 'dreaded' day with your lovely Dad it does not make it any the less painful, loss or expected loss the pain is still there and the anxiety wondering when it will happen must be awful. Just take one day at a time and love and cherish him as much as you can. Many people on this message board including me have probably cancelled Christmas. People who wish you Christmas cheer just don't understand, it is not they don't care but they can't see what we are going throrugh until they are there themselves they don't mean any harm. I won't say anymore buyt just remember we are here on this message board to give vent to our pain and feeling I am new her myself and feel better after having a read through some of the trauma and pain others have been throrugh. I only lost my husband recently. Just remember lots of thoughts and wishes are with you at this terrible time but most of alal love that Dad of yours as much as you can !
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