this is my first time on this message board. i lost my lovely wonderfull partner mel on .03.10.07 he was so suddenly taken away from me he went into hospital on .01.10.07 with pneumonia and passed away two days later from a heartattack i was with him when he died and i am totaly lost without him he was my best friend and my soulmate and i just cant imagine my life without him he ment the world to me i loved him so much my heart is just broken how do i carry on?

miss you so much my angel and i always will XXXXXX

Dawn,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss and offer my sincere condolences.
Please keep posting on here because as I've said many times before, we are all suffering in some way and try and be as supportive as we can. I've found this site invaluable as I don't feel quite so alone at times.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
Louise x

hi louise

thank you so much for your kind message and words of support it means alot to me i am feeling realy down at the moment its 4 months two day since my angel was taken away from me.

could you please send a message back two me so i know i am doing this wright many thanks

love dawn x

Dear Dawn,
I'm glad I could be of some small help to you.
I do understand some of the feelings you're experiencing as I'm having a few bad days myself at the moment.
Please keep posting and let us know how you are as we're all here to support each other.
Love,
Louise x

Dear Dawn,

My heart goes out to you.

I lost my husband very suddenly 2 years ago and this site has been so helpful, offering comfort and understanding when so badly needed.

I still have many bad days and nights myself and I totally understand how you are feeling, my husband was my soulmate too.

Please keep posting, there is a lot of support here for everyone.

Carole

hi carol

so sorry about your husband, thank you so much for your kind words i am so glad that i found this site it is so comforting to talk to people who know what you are going through. i havent had avery good day today.

love dawn x

hi carol

so sorry about your husband, thank you so much for your kind words i am so glad that i found this site it is so comforting to talk to people who know what you are going through. i havent had avery good day today.

love dawn x

hi carol

so sorry about your husband, thank you so much for your kind words i am so glad that i found this site it is so comforting to talk to people who know what you are going through. i havent had avery good day today.

love dawn x

I believe sincerely that time will heal all this pain we are all going through, never completely but it will become manageable. I know I often post on here with positive messages, because I know from the event of my son's death 11 years ago that it is possible to get pat the pain. On Saturday night I was so upset at coming into my empty house, and missing Pat so much that I rang the Samaritans, purely to have a good cry, and it did help. Don't be frightened to do that . I was a Sam for 10 years, and the people down there are really able to offer the sort of support you get here, although I have to say that at the time I was doing it, I thought I knew what grief was, but I hadn't a clue. I read a quotation the other day(Shakespeare could always put his finger on it) " Anyone can master grief except him that hath it"...pretty true, but I believe we can all master it if we keep on asking for help and sharing it, as we all do here.
Please don't despair..the one's we loved are still with us in some strange way, and meanwhile you have help from all of us here. Keep on keeping on, because we need you as much as you need us.

Love, Derry
Love,
Derry

Hi, I lost my partner of 6 years on the 28th of Jan. He was only 34 and had already been fighting a brain tumour for 3 years when he started having problems breathing. He was rushed to hospital and during surgery for a perforated bowel they found a massive tumour that was too large to remove. He died without waking. I never got to tell him how much i love him and its breaking my heart because he had pushed me away for the last month of his life. I am only 32 and have no idea how to carry on without him. I feel for anybody who is feeling as bad as i do and keep having to remind myself that i am not the only one going through this living hell.

hi rose so sorry to here of your loss my angels been gone 4 months and i know how hard it is, i hope you get some help from us on here bacause i hevent been a member very long and it has helped me a lot so keep posting.

love and peace to you

love from dawn j x

I just wanted to say hi to you. I used to post here but haven't done for a while, I lost my Dad last year (see my previous post).

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss and your pain, and just wanted to send you my condolences.

x x

Hi JW

thank you so much for your message it means a lot to me that other people care and know what others are going through, things are hard for me at the moment i am so glad that i found this site.

peace and love to you dawn

I lost my beloved Jimmy suddenly too. He had cancer of the spine but ws coping well with chemotherapy. He contracted pneumonia and within 3 days died. I spent his last days holding him and helping him as he died. It is nearly 4 months since he passed on and I find everyday a struggle trying to face a life without his smile his grace and his adoration. I never knew how much Icould love or be loved until I met Jimmy and it is as if my soul went with him. grief was unbearable at first nowthere is just a terrible emptiness and sadness I live in the comfort of hope that soon we will be reunited because I have to believe he is waiting somewhere for me. Love that precious surely cannot end in death? My thoughts are with you xx

Hi Sandie
thanks for you message i am so sorry for your loss and i know how you feel. The hardest part for me is the lonelyness and emptyness that i feel, i am so glad i found this site, take care of yourself love.
My thoughts are with you
love dawn xxx