i agree with you-that a relationship should not be the only thing that defines a person and that women do tend to sacrifice a lot. i am happy to sacrifice much, but i don't want to sacrifice too much and regret it. i try to keep an open mind about trying to make myself happy first. about the veterinarian question: yes i can definitely do this with him and he encourages it. the problem there is that i do have to move out of state to do so (for four-five years). Yes, i want to move. I am somewhat scared that he won't move with me (and that says a lot) but also that he can't move with me-because of his job which is limited to certain locations. In my happy imagination I get accepted to the school of my choice in a lovely place to live and we both go, I become vet he finds a good job there and we live happily with our dog and garden etc. So many complications! It becomes hard for me to think about it all. But I think that overall there are some things that I won't turn down because it will affect the two of us: my education and career doing what I want to do. I know life is not easy and clean and simple, what is right is not always easy. I appreciate your thoughts, thanks for the help!
puregoldendreams
2aFii
19/26.25/35
first goal: BS done! 9/09
2nd goal waist 30"
overall goal:
tail bone or 35" for me, then i will see if i want to maintain or not.
25 years old
coconut oil overnight weekly
jojoba oil as remembered to the ends
wide tooth plastic comb,bbb sometimes
experimenting with shampoos, ACV and other natural treatments
mostly raw/vegan diet