Hmmm...why don't you take your own advice there Audrey and don't forget to get over yourself while you're at it.I believe this is what we call a pot calling a teakettle black.I do have a child but this has nothing to do with me or YOU or anyone else for this matter but to the families involved THEMSELF.So I'm not the one sticking my nose into someone else's business unlike you and some others.I really don't see what this has to do with you???Is it your family???If not,you really should't be prying into someone else's life.