Don,
I can't help with the verification problem except to give the usual responses.
- Make sure you are logged in to the account you are trying to verify.
- Make sure you are using the default browser for your system, regardless if it is the browser you use for N54.
- Make sure you are enabling cookies and your anti-virus software does not see N54 as a threat.
If none of those help, you need to forward the verification e-mail to support at network54 dot com
As for where to send people to sign up, it's just http://www.network54.com and there should be a link on your forum (you don't need to add it, in other words).

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