Thanks Guys for all your help, but NO LUCK!!
I followed your suggestions to a "T" ... and yes, WYSIWYG is turned off.
I am on a MAC using Safari.
Here is my YOU TUBE TEST
.... 1) is the Embed Code straight from YOU TUBE (prior to Feb 2010, this is what I always used and it worked perfectly!)
.... 2) Is the short version suggested in the link
.... 3) Is the EMBED CODE with the "highlighted blue" section deleted - the "Opposite" suggestion
AND HERE ARE THE RESULTS
... 3) didn't even show up - and there was a big empty space between 1) & 2).
Any OTHER suggestions, PLEASE
Nick - any ideas??
Thank you all for your help ....
Tatia (feeling pretty frustrated here)