i agree, nobody every goes to this much trouble when anybody else dies. But have they done wut this man has done. He isnt just somebody else. Think of everything he has contributed to the town. He was a very generous man. I cant believe any one would write something like that. Did you know the man? sounds to me like your jeleus. It also sounds like no one will go to much trouble or even care when you die if the message you wrote reflects on you as a person.